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Jeanne Lee

Jane has asked for prayers for her daughter, Joy. Following is the information as she has provided it.



"My son-in-law John called last night to let me know Joy is in the hospital ... <gulp>
When he said something about her pancreas I told him I didn't want to hear that word.  He said "neither did Joy ... she nearly threw up when she heard it"   Anyway she called me herself this morning and again about an hour ago ..... after this email from John.  She told him he better never again use that word around me!  She also said they didn't get around to doing the endoscopy today, and she is still fasting for it (FOR TWO DAYS already :o ) It's a small hospital in Sonora and any number of things could cause the delay.






this is the email from John: Subject: Joy (Joanie is his sister who bought a home, and lives just up the hill from them )

An update on Joy's condition. Joy was admitted into the hospital yesterday for severe abdominal pains. Throughout the day she was given a battery of tests, ultrasound, CT-scan and MRI but none were conclusive. No gallstones were found. She has high liver enzyme count and her pancreas is swollen and not functioning correctly. Today she was informed that she has severe pancreatitis and the plan is to go down her throat today and perform an endoscopy to look around for stones, which is the major cause of pancreatitis. If they find a stone it will be removed endoscopically and if they don't find one, they still plan on removing the gall bladder sometime this week but probably not today.

Her spirits are good and she just wants the pain gone. I am fine and will be watching Don and Joanie's dogs since they is on the way today to UCDavis med center to prep for his surgery to be done on Tuesday for his bowel resection for his cancer. Little bit of drama up here in beautiful Sonora. Should be a very interesting week. "

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Jeanne Lee

This is the latest information from Jane.

"Joy is being transported to Stanford tonight.  Bryan finally called, and should be here to pick me up early in the morning. 

She called me this afternoon (no, I called her) and she is really not doing well.  She says Bryan doesn't know how serious this is, and she doesn't want him to panic. "



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Marilyn

I had an email from Jane yesterday filling me in on this so I am praying as well.
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Ruth Ann Bice

Jane, Joy, and family are in my prayers, too.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Larry Hanna

I have also been praying for Joy, Jane and all the family impacted by Joy's illness.

Pat

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Here is another update from our Jane regarding Joy:


Bryan picked me up in Oregon and drove here to Stanford University ... I was so tired and nervous with his driving ... will spare you the details.  Had a terrible time getting here in the rain and at dark and GPS leading us astray but we finally made it late last night.

We have just had the conference with the doctor, surgeon and anesthesiologist .... surgery is scheduled for 9:30 tomorrow morning.  Look it up .... Whipple procedure.  This doctor has done over 1000 of these ... Joy is at the best hospital in the States and has the very best doctor/surgeon.

She has had bouts of extreme pain and nausea ... jaundiced ... that will be taken care of tomorrow.  There is a tumor on the pancreas .... and duodenum.  This operation will remove the tumor, part of the pancreas, gall bladder, maybe a part of her stomach and part of the duodenum.  She is greatly at peace and in good spirits.  Bryan is freaking out, though.  John is nervous ... always thinking pesimistically .... Not so with Joy.  She worries about me but she doesn't need to.  I'm okay with all that we've learned and only teary when talking about it, but that's the way I am .... for so long I couldn't cry at all and now I am so emotional at times.  Not that I feel sad, just because the emotions are so close to the surface at times.

I wanted to wait until after talking with the doctors before contacting you so I could give you more correct info.  She wants an epidermal and is denying any chemo.  The intern was talking to her and said that was not an option "Chemo is always indicated "  We know the patient has the right to refuse meds or treatment ....
I won't belabor the issue, but will do my best to keep you posted.  Oh..... they are indicating 7-10 days for surgery and recovery and then she should be able to go home with possible follow up in 4 months (that's if it's cancer).

I love you and thank you for your love and prayers .... especially in this situation and at this time of year.

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Pat




Another update from Jane:

Joy's surgery started at 10:14 this morning .... they said it could be 4-6 hours, but the doctor notified us a little while ago that it will be another 2 hours ... because it is taking so long (being thorough) she will probably go from OR to ICU for recovery.  She'll be there several hours .... because there is more/better equipment to monitor her and assure a good recovery.  She will then be transferred to a private room and we will be able to go visit with her.  While she is in ICU, it will be only 2 at a time.

I have to tell you that when we saw her this morning, she was in great ... as in GREAT spirits.  She had learned from a nurse that she does not have to accept chemo ... this nurse is one who administers it and she said she wouldn't take it when she had surgery for cancer earlier this year.  That made Joy very happy to know. 
Pat, would you be able to make any updates to the prayer request in CP?  I am using a computer here at the hospital, and my time is limited. 

Thank you for all the prayers .... there are so many praying all around the world.... several prayer lists have her name at the top.  She is well covered .... and totally at peace!

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JudyB

Praying for Jane Joy and the rest of the family.


Nita

Praying, praying. I haven't heard from Jane since Joy came out of surgery.


Ruth Ann Bice

Thank you both for the updates. We'll continue praying.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Pat

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Another update from our Jane...


Merry Christmas everyone!   Good tidings to all ..... Joy is in her room following a 7 hr surgery and 24 hours in ICU.  She had a few complications but the surgeon says "we got it all" and that's good to hear.  Her scar is more than anyone expected but that's because the surgery was so extensive. (that's the reason it took 7 hours). 

At this moment she is waiting to get into her private room so we can have a Christmas party!!  She wants music and singing and lots of laughs tomorrow, and we are going to oblige! 

The doctor has said 7-10 days before she will be ready for release.  Her nurse said, this evening, "let's make it 8 days"  Anyway I will be here for and with her as long as she is here .... I have to rely on Bryan to an extent because "he's the guy what brung me."

Things are, as usual, a bit up in the air ... so we are just rolling with the flow. 
I do, indeed, wish everyone a great time this holiday season and we still want your prayers.... for quick and uncomplicated recovery.  It will be a long road ahead of her, but at least the tumor (and other things) is out and the surgery is past! 

Gotta get back to Joy ... I'll be back as the opportunity presents itself.  Take care and know that I am sending my love and best wishes for a VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS!!! 



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JudyB

Praise God....He is so good!  Prayer continues.


Janet

Oh, Jane!  Your cheerful, positive post brings tears of joy to my eyes and a smile to my face!  What an awesome God we serve!  He is all we need, in every situation!  My prayers for you, Joy, Bryan and all the family continue.  How blessed you all are that she is receiving such good, expert care!  Who but our God could orchestrate everything so flawlessly?  Praise His Holy Name!

Sending big smiles  :) :) :D :D  :thumbsup:  and Christmas hugs to you, dear Jane!  <3
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Ruth Ann Bice

I continue to pray for Joy and her extended family.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Pat

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Another update from Jane...


Hey there, gang!   

Merry Christmas from UCStanford Medical Center!!!  Joy is up and sitting in a chair.  We have been singing carols and she read the devotional from My Utmost for His Highest .... she needs to do breathing exercises and the singing and reading aloud did the job for today.  They want her to walk a little tomorrow ... things are progressing so well.  She has pain quite often .... mostly when she falls asleep and doesn't press the button to deliver the meds .... press every 10 minutes (as needed) .... then she wakes up to pain.  The doctor said she shouldn't be having pain (in the right side of her abdomen but we know how "unique" our family is .... always doing things a different way. 

Bryan had a couple presents that Joy had mailed to him, so he brought them with him and we just watched him open them.  We are having a GREAT Christmas!   Sherry has Joy's (private) room all decorated, too.
The PT tech came in and put her through the questions ... how did you get around at home ... any unstability, stairs ... is there a railing ... can you raise your arms over your head .... squeeze my hand ..... That really ticked her off!! Joy could do everything in spades.   She has never been a weakling or inactive.  They want her up and able to get around well before they can send her home.  That should not be so difficult. 

In a little while Sherry, John, Bryan and I will go down to the cafeteria for a full Holiday meal .... that's all they're serving today (free for the staff) So we can have Christmas dinner together.   Joy just got her pic in, this morning so they can give her nourishment.  She still can have nothing by mouth, as long as there is still drainage from the surgical site.

All in all, I am well pleased, and so thankful for all the prayers. 
Here's wishing each one of you ... and your families ... a JOYous Christmas and a very Happy New Year .... I'll be back just as soon as I can.  Take care and know how much I love you.

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Pat

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And another one!!!


More good news .... Joy got out of bed again and walked "around the block" which was two nursing stations, and did fabulously!  She had her entourage with her ... all of us including the nursing assistant trailing along singing carols!  Some of the nurses joined our parade and we were quite the sight to see! 
When she was triumphantly back in her bed she told us to open the champagne and Pringles and we had (another) party!!  Then we watched a movie!  She wanted to take a shower, but the nurse said maybe she should wait until tomorrow.   She just wants to do as much as she can, as fast as she can, to get to the place where she can go home!  Can't blame her for that!

She is really making great progress in her recovery.  I think she is surprising some of the staff here.  They all take such great care of her ... in fact, they practically dote on her!  And today being Christmas, there is a short staff (and the bosses aren't here) so everyone is in a festive mood and partying ...... tomorrow will be back to business.

Just had to let you know the latest ... take care and thanks for responding ... I am letting her know of each comment. 

Sis Sara ...Thanks for your conversation with Bob ... I have been thinking I need to call him but there is just never the opportunity.

Love to each of you ..... I'll be back anon

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Jeanne Lee

I'm afraid I seem to have been among the missing lately.   I just have not had my usual computer time, but I have followed Jane's wonderful reports of the Lord's miracles and I give Him praise as I pray for continuing healing, peace and comfort for all who are concerned and involved.
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Janet

Jane, I simply MUST tell you how much your cheerful, positive, upbeat posts have meant to me!  It is wonderful to be able to share in God's goodness to Joy and all your family in the midst of this journey to total healing!  Thank you for including us in your family!   <3
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Jane Walker

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Here I am ... from the hospital.
Joy made 2 laps around the block earlier today, and is now awaiting the nursing assistant for another jaunt!   :D  It is quite an ordeal to get her "unhooked" and upright even before the walk, but she is so happy to be up and moving!  We heard the staff is really happy (and a bit surprised) at her progress.  I am too!! 

Her good friend, Sherry, went home today so that leaves John, Bryan and me to be here for her ..... just so happens we are her family---Mom, husband, and son ... the most important people in her life, she says.  She said she told John he better not tell her mother that she can't be here ... she wants me here as much as I want to be here.

She is remembering 15 years ago when her sister was battling pancreatic cancer, and I was kept away from her ... she passed away exactly 15 years ago on New Year's Eve.  Joy said then that she promised I would not have to lose another daughter.  A few days ago she said "Mom I promised ... and I will NOT break my promise!"  Gotta love that girl.  I reminded her that God is the only one that knows that ... our days are numbered and only HE has that number.

I am so thankful for friends who know how to pray ... God is so good .... Thank you all!!   <3
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Janet

Blessings and prayers are yours, Jane!
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Jeanne Lee

Jane, I have no way of knowing or understanding what you are going through right now.  But our wonderful, amazing God does know and is always there for you.   
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Ruth Ann Bice

Thank you, Jane (and Jane's helpers here in CP) for the updates. We'll keep praying for all of y'all.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Marilyn

Thank you Pat for bringing jane's update an also Jane thank you for the update. Still praying even as I type this.
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Jane Walker

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Lotsa progress ... Joy is tired, and sleepy, but she has been up and walking already today and the goal is to do this at least 3 times today ... that's one down and two to go!  She also has had another tube removed (the NG).  That one was bothering her a lot because it was in her nose ..... Another goal is that, as long as the sun is up, she is to be out of bed.  She can be sitting in a chair, on the couch, or walking ... she's game for that because she just wants to make progress and get home.  Another tube and the epidural are supposed to come out tomorrow.  She is dreading that because she is afraid of pain although she's told (several times) they will replace it with an oral pain medicine.  As well as she is being taken care of, we have to trust that whatever it is replaced with will be just as effective and monitor her pain just as well.  Nobody here wants to hurt her any more than already.  This hospital has the reputation of being one of the very best ...  and the staff -- for sure all we've met -- are well trained and really patient friendly!


Later............
Joy finally got someone to pay attention to her and help her take another walk, about 3:30... She still has one more to fulfill her obligation, as she calls it.  She is determined to do everything they ask of her ... and more .... so she can heal quickly and well..  She is on a lot of meds and that makes her sleepy and weak when she stands up ... she presses on. 

It seems as if tomorrow she will be able to have clear liquids.... she is so looking forward to that!  Her mouth is so dry and she says she is feeling hungry now.  One step at a time and little by little .... do exactly and only what the doctor orders.  She's a bit testy today because of lack of sleep and pain and the fact that she wants to get her three walk in, and the nursing assistants don't come to help her.

There was a fear that, when the epidural is removed, she would have pain.   Nurse told her they will give her the pain meds orally, then remove the epidural, and if that doesn't work then they will put the epidural back.  She was relieved to  know they are taking the best care possible so she doesn't feel pain.
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Jeanne Lee

Jane, that news is so encouraging.  And you seem to be so "upbeat"!  My prayers continue for all of you.
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Janet

And Joy presses gamely on!  She should heal as quickly as humanly possible, with God's help, of course, as she is determined to do all required of her, and more!  You go, girl!  Hugs to you, dear Jane! ((((hugs))))
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Jane Walker

Progress continues ... toward complete mobility and strength.  Joy is surpassing all goals set by the team.  Getting stronger each time she goes for a walk.  Today, with just Bryan and I here, we were told that it is a good thing for her to walk as often as she feels like it.  She uses the walker, but without the slightest wobble or hint of falling, so with us here, the nursing assistants can be relieved from accompaning her .... they are turning that over to family.  Just need to have a professional unplug the IV pole (from the wall) and it'll be on us. 

Joy says she is grateful and happy that I am here.  (where else would I be?)  The pathology report has not been received yet, and the nurse and doctor's partner say things like "if it's cancer then there will be other things we will have to consider ...."   NOPE  We are not going to consider that!!!  There has been some fear surfacing in some members of this family, but I believe in a good report!  God is still in control ... and we trust Him to make all things right and look forward to the lessons to be learned and the testimony to be shared.

A couple of friends from Sonora are coming to visit today, and Joy is anticipating that.  She needs cheerfull and upbeat people in her life right now. Sherry has returned home, bring on Toni and Chrissy!!
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Ruth Ann Bice

Thank you so much for the updates, Jane. We're keeping up the support here at CP.

Much love to each of you.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Jane Walker

Joy has managed to lose most of the IVs. and has been walking around the area several times a day.  She usually does 3 laps 3 times a day with the walker and/or IV pole and then sits in a chair for a while. Blood draw last night, and again this morning, showed elevated white count, so a CT scan revealed fluid build-up in the abdomen ... she is just now in surgery, having a new drain inserted for that.

Still no pathology report, but the doctor will be back from his annual 2 day vacation tomorrow, and he wants to discuss this himself, so tomorrow will be the predicted 5 days anyway .... have to remember there was a holiday and weekend somewhere in there ... We have become acquainted with most of the medical team here.... they are really wonderful people.  We were just told that our's is "such a nice family" and they really like us being here .... have no problem with us staying all day and late into the night.  That's what I do, anyway.

John has gone off on another of his drives, and Bryan is busy with his "war" games on line.   I've got my Kindle for the times when Joy is sleeping or I want to give her some alone time with John or Bryan.  She is so appreciative that we are here.  This is her whole family (3 generations ... mother, husband, and son )... she says she feels so badly for people who are here, far from home, with no friends or family near.

We are still perking along and will most likely be here another few daze ... chart shows estimated discharge date as 1/2/15 ... but this new wrinkle (fluid and drain) could change that.  Until there is an assurance nothing is leaking, she will not have anything by mouth.  Have to start off with clear liquids then advance from there, you know.  She won't be going home until she is eating and walking and well on the way to "normal"   At this point, the team continues to be amazed at her progress.  Whenever we go for a walk they just stand at the nursing stations and cheer!  ;)
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Jeanne Lee

Jane, I am so pleased to read your posts of Joy's encouraging progress.  Praise God!
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Jane Walker

News from the doctor this morning is bad news, good news .... He said Joy had pancreatic cancer, but he got it all.  The biopsy from the area after the cancer was removed was benign -- no cancer in the surrounding tissue.  According to him, it will be another two weeks before she will be discharged from this hospital.  She was disappointed at that, but is a real trooper and wants to do all that is required to assure she never has to come back!  He wants to make sure she is strong enough to manage at home.  This will mean PT and diet manipulation.... she gets to start clear liquids today ... just ordered broth, jello and a popsicle ...

John has arranged for us to rent an apartment near here ... just past the parking garage so it will be within walking distance,(a looonngg walk) and we can avoid the $12 daily parking fee.  Looks like I'm going to get my exercise, after all!  ;)

Can't help but think of Jean's battle with this same disease ... and at this very same time of year . Today is the anniversary of when she passed away :'(  Joy told me then, and has repeated it a few times since: "Mom, I promise not to die, You can't lose 2 daughters .... and I will keep my promise"   It has been a little worrisome these past couple weeks, whether that would happen, but it seems we got a do-over, and this time were successful.

A better ending to this old year  ... looking forward to a much happier New Year.
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Marilyn

Thank you Jesus for the answer to prayers. Thank God that they got it all.
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JudyB

Thank you for the updates Jane.  Prayer continues!


Carol

Amazing Grace - that is what I thought about when reading your updates on Joy.  Her name says it all.  My best wishes to everyone in the family. 

Ruth Ann Bice

Beautiful messages from you, Jane. I'm still praying for all involved.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Jane Walker

A bit of a bustling, busy day again, and she is getting tired.  Took a long walk this afternoon and then sat in the guest lounge .... in a real chair, she says .... for over 2 hours because it was so comfortable and she was in a place that didn't look or feel like a hospital room.  A recliner where she could put her feet up and relax .... while John checked the Rose Bowl game ..... GO DUCKS!! 

Her liquids have been cut back, because there is still a "leak" somewhere and the idea is to empty the drains so she can have another scan to find out just where and what ... and treat it! 

Progress is progress and, whether slow or not, she is making progress .... much better than regressing, for sure.
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Ruth Ann Bice

I was awake in the night, Jane, and prayed for y'all.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Janet

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Jane Walker

The doctor was in to see Joy yesterday evening, while I was there, he says it looks like. Sunday for the next scan. 

She walked without any support, for the PT.  Also enjoys walking with us around larger and larger areas, then sitting in the lounge "just like real people!"  Her clear liquids have been taken away from her in preparation for the next scan on Sunday.  She can have water to take her Percocet, and must drink only 100cc per nursing shift... 8hours. She looked good yesterday and in good spirits.  The pain seemed to be managed better. She no longer has her"magic button" to push every 10minutes, and that had her a bit apprehensive, but she has the nurse's promise to get the pain meds to her on time so she can stay ahead of the pain.

I'm waiting for Bryan to get up,so we can go over to the hospital... This may take a while. ???

I am using his iPad at the moment, and trying to get used to it.  See y'all later ... I hope!!
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Ruth Ann Bice

May our Lord guide the hands of those performing the scan and the thoughts of all medical staff as they work with Joy.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Jane Walker

It has been a while since the last update on Joy.  I came home from her house, in Twain Harte, Calif. on the 1st of February and have only had one phone call from her.  I did manage to get some messages on Face Book from her and some of her friends. They have kept me aware of her progress.  Some of the ladies from her church have been taking care of her.  The Monday Bible Study decided she needs her house cleaned "for at least the next 6 months" and they show up every Monday after Bible Study!  Another group are managing what they call the Food Train, and bring in meals a couple times a week.   

Joy can only manage a few bites at a time of anything (because her stomach is greatly reduced in size) but she is trying to eat frequently ... John has also stocked up on Protein Shakes for her ... She can manage them easier.  She sleeps a lot, but that is a good thing, also a side effect of her pain meds.

This is what she posted on Face Book last night:


I came to this land of Facebook today after a long trip to other parts of life. .. . reality, pain, Presence and beautiful friendships. I've decided this takes effort as does a phone call or a visit for me. SO, do not despair I am not gone, but I am renewed and still recovering from a very wild adventure through hospital and pain medication.. ONE thing...GOD was and is with me every step of the way, with every breath I take I praise HIM, for every one thing I could complain about, instead I find one hundred things for which and in which to be thankful. I am grateful. I will check in here from time to time, it is ever so easy to come here and spend the day, but for now, I am reluctant to spend the wee bit of energy that I have on this machine...I am tired already, must go for the nightly nap. truly love all you, my friends and family.


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JudyB

Good news Jane.  I will continue to pray.


Jeanne Lee

Jane, thank you for that encouraging update.   :thumbsup:
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Janet

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Ruth Ann Bice

Jane, I'm so thankful you are keeping us updated. May God bless you, Joy, and the family during this time of healing and recovery.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Pat


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Jane Walker


Here's Joy .. exuding JOY .. sporting a new, sassy haircut and with her good friend from her church. 

She is awaiting the okay from her insurance company to go to Cancer Treatment Center of America.  If accepted, they will fly her and John to whichever center has the best program for her.  Otherwise, she will begin a 5 month course of chemotherapy.  She is working at avoiding that, and making sure she stays healthy and cancer free.... juicing and careful diet. 
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Jeanne Lee

Jane, there will certainly be prayers for her acceptance in Cancer Centers and for an appropriate course of treatment.  The photo is wonderful.   :)
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JudyB

I am so happy for you for answered prayer.


Pat

That will indeed be a great place for her to go to, Jane.  She looks so happy in the photo.  She's (and YOU) certainly been through a very difficult journey.


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Jane Walker

I just received this email from Joy ... You'll notice she is being kind referring to my fiftieth birthday ... also, Dot and Becky are both graduating from MTI on the 10th of April.

I'm needing to call you today, but I have several calls and appointments going on today. We have applied and have been accepted to The Cancer Treatment Centers of America. They are flying John and me out to their Illinois center on Monday for a three to five day evaluation. They may start their treatment right away and that means I would stay.

I have been ready to start chemo for several times already and each time something happens that it could not be started, maybe the CTCA will find another result... They are very nice people over the phone and they pay our way and accommodations and food.  I'm excited. Their whole focus is on my quality of life. So I will be out of state for your fiftieth birthday and maybe Dot's graduation too...but I need to get whole.


We appreciate your prayers, as always.  God is still in control, and we trust Him.
Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass .... it's about learning to dance in the rain!

Janet

Praise God, Who always answers prayers!  I pray the blessings continue for you and your family, Jane.
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Ruth Ann Bice

May God bless Joy and you and your family. I trust she will receive wonderful treatment at the Center.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Jane Walker

I just received this email from John.  He and Joy are at the Cancer Treatment Center in Chicago ... when they flew in there on Monday, the airlines managed to lose their luggage (including Joy's CPAP machine) and she wasn't feeling well.  Yesterday was a day of assessment and testing.  Today he posted that she had a bladder infection so no testing, only a CT scan this afternoon.  She had been to a pain management class and it was recommended she have a nerve block for the abdominal pain.   I guess the scan revealed the cause of that pain.  :'(

Just wanted to write a personal update for you. Joy's cancer has metastasized to her liver which explains the pain. Treatment doesn't change from what it was before. Her tumor markers in her blood are extremely high but getting the chemo started should help that. We have been very frustrated with our local hospital in getting things going. Last time in they couldn't even get an IV started for a chemo treatment so we started looking at other providers. That's how we ended up here at Cancer Treatment Centers of America. They are even paying for airfare and some of the hotel bill. In addition to chemo they provide acupuncture, chiropractic, nutrition and other alternative medicine solutions. She will be flying out here regularly or to the center in Phoenix for treatments. The personnel here are fabulous. We have elected not to burden Bryan with this info as we think it would unduly trouble him and there is nothing any of us can do other than pray. I will call him when we have a plan from this facility which should be in the next few days and I will update you at the same time. I will stay in touch.
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Janet

Jane, I am so sorry that things seem less positive right now, but I'm praying this is only a temporary glitch.  Our God will never fail us!  So we will redouble our prayers for precious Joy!  Love you!
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Jeanne Lee

Not encouraging, Jane.  But we know that our Heavenly Father is in charge.  Prayers continue. 
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Jane Walker

Here is John's most recent post on Facebook :


Joy update 4_1_15
Had a great day here, not just because of feeling better but because this facility is unlike anything I have experienced before. The people and attitudes displayed are simply incredible. We aren't patients but family that is sick and hurting. Don't know how else to describe. It. Joy is in a good place physically but is a little down tonight. About an hour ago I spun around in my chair here in the hotel room and caught my little toe on the spindle of the table and dislocated it. To make her day worse I made her reset it. At least it is pointing the right way now.


If anyone is suffering from a cancer or has a loved one diagnosed with it, give Cancer Center of America a call. These people are terrific. It is like being in one of their commercials. They approach this from a wellness perspective and treat with chemo,, nutrition, acupuncture, counseling and copious amounts of love and compassion. Everyday we ride a shuttle from the hotel to the hospital and listen to others going through similar circumstances. Some have been in treatment for months but all have amazing stories of hope and success. It is a blessing to be here. Our story will be great also.

She starts the day tomorrow with a pain block shot in her back to get the pain and nausea under control then meetings the rest of the day with different doctors and specialties. Her chest port goes in on Friday.

Thanks for your thoughts and prayers. Our God is Glorious!
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Janet

Thank you for posting this encouraging report!
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Larry Hanna

Jane, it sounds like Joy is in the place she needs to be and is getting fine treatment.  I will be praying for her.

JudyB

I am so sorry Jane that things have taken this turn.  I will be praying for Joy and John.  I know you as Mom are wishing you could be there for her.  Praying for you as well!


Jane Walker

Thanks, each of you, for your prayers and words of encouragement.
Judy, I was by her side every single day she was at Stanford and followed her home (I was with Bryan) for another week.  Yes, indeed, I would love to be with her now.  John posted this morning that she is/was in surgery for that nerve block .. well, I'll just let you read it from him:

Joy is back in surgery right now for a experimental treatment. It is a injection into a bundle of nerves in her back to reduce the pain and nausea in her belly. We'll see how it works later. She is tired and weak, she's lost another 7 pounds the last 2 weeks. Normally she would be ecstatic but not under these circumstances. Check in later. Thanks for your prayers

I'm a bit concerned about the continued weight loss and her tiredness and weakness.  I can't help but recall Jean's struggle with the same things.  Also, the fact that this monster has metastasized to her liver.  I'm having a struggle keeping positive these days. :(
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Carol

Prayers for you, Jane and your daughter Joy. 

Ruth Ann Bice

Jane, I remain with you and the family in my prayers. May our Lord be especially near and dear to each of you during this time.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


buddywoods

Jane, I will continue to pray for you and your daughter!

JudyB



Jane Walker

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Jane Walker

I just had a phone call from Joy.  She is in good spirits. Had a long day ... first put the port in for chemo, then went back to the hotel room and a nurse came with the pump and she is receiving the chemo drip now ... takes 7 1/2 hours.  She is to do this every two weeks.  But she is saying the trip back there and the chemo therapy for 7 1/2 hrs it just too much and very tiring.  It would be difficult for John to accompany her each time, too.

So they are going to get the stats on this particular dosage, etc.  and take it to their local hospital to see if they can duplicate it there.  That will need to be discussed with the CTCA probably tomorrow.  She thinks she will be leaving Illinois by Monday.
She told me the CTCA in Chicago is the "mother ship" and was started by a man whose mother had suffered with cancer and he didn't like the way she became just a number.  He says he wants every person that comes there to be treated just as if it were his mother.  Even the driver of the shuttle, to and fro, says he doesn't want to hear the words "cancer treatment", or "hospital" but insists they say he is taking them to "The Magic Kingdom"

It was wonderful to hear her voice.  She is weak, but says she is still very positive and has no worries.  The doctor told her this probably will not cure her, but she is very healthy in the rest of her body and she is young and it will certainly give her a longer life.  She has a very strong support system at home, in Sonora, so that will be no problem.  Her friends there are just eagerly waiting for her to let them help her.

Just recently, John was golfing and Joy needed to go some place.  She isn't supposed to drive while on medication, but she thought "well, I can drive just that little way" .... then checked herself and thought better of it.  You know there are always people saying "If there's anything I can do ...."  She called a friend and the answer was immediate: "I'll be right there!"
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JudyB

I am glad she has that great support system.  I hope they can duplicate the cocktail.  It will make life so much easier for her.


Ruth Ann Bice

Thanks for the updates, Jane.

Much love to you and your family.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Jane Walker

This is the latest post from John ....

Still in Zion. Joy was in the chemo chair for 7 hours yesterday and got sick. Picked her up at 6 then an hour later the tech showed up at the hotel with the chemo pump, hooked it up, set it for 46 hours and left. Will be back Sunday night to unhook her. Joy's pretty nauseous but ok.

We are trying to get a flight out Monday. This has been good but there is nothing being offered to her that we can't access in Sonora so we will remain in town for her treatments in the future. Looking forward to getting home and playing some golf and loving on my doggies. All good. Our God is good!
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JudyB



Carol

Jane:  It will be such a relief for them to be close to home.  It sure sounds like Joy is getting special & loving care.  Take care, yourself.

Pat




Jane requested that I post this latest post from John...


Long story but here is the latest. We went back to Chicago area to the Cancer Treatment Center of America because they told us of all the cutting edge stuff they are doing for pancreatic cancer. We did the assessments but found that they really can't do anything that Sonora couldn't do. We got the port put in and the first round of chemo done but we have chosen not to go back since she can't do the long travel days or really afford for me to go with her. No denigration in treatment by doing it here. She is very tired and spends most her day in bed. Her attitude is pretty good for her condition and has been complimented by her oncologist. She will be having 6-7 hours of chemo every 2 weeks until the cancer goes away but her stage 4 means there is no cure but treatment to keep her alive is available. It is pretty grim news but our hope is in our God to heal her. We are doing alternate therapies also like whole foods, juicing and some other natural therapies. Thanks for asking. Appreciate you more than you know.

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Jeanne Lee

What hard times these are - for Joy, for John, and for our Jane.  My prayers for peace, comfort and strength from our Heavenly Father for all, as well as wisdom for the doctors and all caregivers.
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Janet

Jeanne, you said exactly what I was thinking.  We all need to be diligent in praying for these special ones.
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JudyB

I am so saddened to hear this, I will continue to pray!


Larry Hanna

I also say amen to the prayer that Jeanne has expressed with regard to Joy and the family.  She is obviously doing her part and getting good treatment and not losing hope is a big factor as expressed in our attitudes. 

Marilyn

"Good people take care of their animals, but even the kindest acts of the wicked are cruel" Prov. 12:10
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Etta Sue

As you know I seldom come on CP but a little birdie told me to come here today and read about your daughter, Joy!  So sad to read this and to realize what all Joy is going through.  May God guide the minds and hands of all her doctors and care-givers.  May God wrap is loving arms around Joy and all her family during this time of need.  May all feel the love and comfort from God.  May prayers will be for your all.  May God Bless each and everyone of you!! 




Janet

I whole-heartedly agree, Etta Sue.  I sure do miss you in here!  :'(
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Ruth Ann Bice

I also continue to pray for Joy and all her family and friends.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


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Carol

Jane:  You have the prayers and thoughts from all at CP.  Hugs to you.

Jane Walker

It has been a while since I brought you up to date on Joy's journey.  She has just passed the halfway mark with her chemo, and still in great spirits.  She has an almost constant stream of visitors to her home in the California foothills.  Some of her friends were there over Mothers' Day weekend, and they had a lot of fun trying on wigs.  She's losing her hair, so has been prepared.

Joy and John at home

She now has shaved her head, except for a patch on top, and is trying out being a redhead! 

At the infusion center

In just a week, Joy and some of her good friends are going on a Mexican cruise!  Her doctor tells her to go and do whatever she wants, and to enjoy life!!

There are still many hurdles to pass, and she has a lot of not-so-good days, but still maintains the attitude that her names implies.  J.O.Y.

Bryan has moved to Twain Harte (a mile or so away) and is renting a little "mountain cabin"  He is afraid he will be lonely, living on his own, but Joy says she'll make a point of going to visit him several times a week.  At least now he can stay up all night and play his music and games without disturbing anyone! 
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Janet

PLEASE TELL JOY HER ATTITUDE IS AN INSPIRATION TO ME!  (Oops on the all caps!)  And tell Bry we think fondly of him as well.
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Carol

Wonderful picture of Joy - have fun with the wigs Joy! 

Ruth Ann Bice

Thank you, Jane, for the good news.

Will continue praying for each of you.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Carol

Just stopping by to say hello, thinking of you and sending you a prayer. 

Janet

I'm still praying for all of you, as well.  Our God loves you, and He cares!
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Jane Walker

Here's the latest from Joy ... posted on Facebook this afternoon

I'm feeling great.
That's for all of you who say you don't know what's going on with me...my phone is working, is yours? All in all I do believe I am being healed daily. getting stronger. except on chemo days...gonna be taking another trip, this time with John to go to Minn to see the grandchildren, and their parents. should be a great time! taking my wheel chair for those long walks that might happen, not looking forward to the airports, but trust we will be taken care of expertly.

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Janet

Great to read such a positive, upbeat report from Joy!  God bless!
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Ruth Ann Bice

...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Jane Walker

Update
Joy is doing very well, given her condition.  She has enrolled in classes at a local community college.  While on her cruise last month she was inspired to take up painting again.  This time she has a theme in mind, and wants to do a series of paintings depicting the Light that indwells each of us.  Jesus said we are the light of the world .... and to let our light so shine that the world will glorify our Father in heaven .... she is a great painter, but not so good at drawing, so will be taking classes in drawing.  She also will be taking piano lessons so she can play the key board she recently purchased, and will be a part of the community choir.  The classes will be partially online and the college is only about 20 minutes' drive for her, so she will not have to be away from home too much.  There are days when she is not feeling like being out, and is hoping she will be granted a "pass" for those days when she cannot make it to class. 

Twice, now, she has gone three weeks between chemo infusions and was apologetic to the doctors.  They said "Don't even worry about it ... go ahead and enjoy life and have fun and drop by every once in a while" ....

About a month or so ago, Joy said her "tumor count" was so high it was "off the charts" and the doctor said he couldn't even document it.  That scared her a little and she had a few days of depression, but soon enough the numbers are down and "within range of normal" ... of course we don't have a clue about all that, just know that things are going in the right direction.  Last week, when she had her infusion, she said she only felt a bit of upset a couple times that same day instead of having to go to bed for two days following.  We praise God for the strength He gives each day. 

And I am especially thankful for the attitude Joy maintains ... she, indeed, lives her name.
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Jeanne Lee

Jane, thank you for the upbeat and encouraging message about Joy.  As I'm sure you know, she, you and the family are always held in prayer.
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Janet

Jane, Joy is an amazing woman of God!  Wow!  And to think that, in the midst of this struggle, she wants to continue to learn, to create beauty, and to enjoy life each day--may we all try to emulate that wonderful attitude!  Yes, I do believe she is living up to her name!  I know you are blessed just hearing the good news as God continues His work in Joy's life.  (((((hugs)))))
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JudyB

Wonderful news Jane Prayer continues.


Ruth Ann Bice

What an inspiration Joy is! Much love to each of you.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Marilyn

Jane that is wonderful news, I will continue to hold her up on prayer
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Jane Walker

I have not posted here for some time because Joy's situation has been in constant change.  After we rejoiced with her in November, the cancer was back in February and she went back on chemo.  Many changes and complications later, she is nearing her transition.  Just a while ago John posted this on facebook: 

John Stephan

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August 27,2016

It is time to update family and friends on Joy's medical situation. Joy had imposed an information blackout to almost everyone due to privacy issues. Approximately 2 months ago she had an episode of severe pain which necessitated a ER trip. Her pain had dramatically increased. A CT scan showed her tumors and cancer were once again being aggressive and growing. The cancer center stopped her chemo treatments due to it's ineffectiveness and she was moved into hospice care at the house. Her infusions of saline continued until two weeks ago but her abdomen drains were continued. Last week it was decided the fluid infusions should also stop. After her hospital stay, a pain regimen of dilaudid was initiated with a pump inserted to deliver pain meds directly under the skin. Morphine was added to the pain control about a week ago and her situation had appeared to stabilize.

This morning at 6:45 am she got out of her hospital bed and she lost her balance, fell and hit her head on a dining room chair. She was knocked unconscious. From the back bedroom I heard the thump of her head hitting the chair and the ensuing tumble to the floor. She was flat of her stomach and out when I got to her. Nothing broken and no other sign of injury other than a knot on her right temple and some swelling. I called the fire department who responded to help lift her into her bed and hospice nurses were called. An analysis was done to ascertain her condition which came up negative for severe trauma. She will likely be out for the remainder of the day and a followup welfare check scheduled for tonight at which time a longer care regimen will be determined. She is not in pain at this time. We need to find out if she can remain in the house or if she needs to be placed in some type of care facility. All unknown at this time.

In spite of a dire prognosis from the pain and the advancing cancer condition her attitude has been spectacular. She smiles when awake but is taking almost no food or liquids. It is our desire she remains in good spirits while still with us. She has talked about her pending passing away and is highly anticipating that event with a joyful expectation. Yesterday while sitting next to her she started laughing. I asked her what was going on and she said there was an angel standing behind me trying to give me a "high-five". I anticipate additional positive signs and manifestations to continue to occur as she approaches that time soon when she is received into the arms of her God and King. This is not a time of grief but an event awaiting all of us. Her faith is strong and has fought the good fight and has constantly been faithful to her God and Savior, Jesus our Christ.
She is not taking telephone calls and hasn't for a couple of weeks. Visitors are discouraged except those who are helping out in the house with her care. We are setting up a watcher group who are helping me by allowing me to shop and run errands (and an occasional time away to play music and to get out for walks and a break) We still need your prayers for her comfort. I will now begin to make further postings now that I have broken the silence on her condition. Thank you for your understanding
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Jeanne Lee

Jane, thank you for relaying that message.  What a combination of tears and uplifting testimony.  My prayers continue for peace and strength for everyone.  I know from experience about sitting by the bedside as a loved one prepares for moving on.
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Jane, thank you.   I will continue to pray for you as you wait for further news. 

"Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints."  Ps. 116:15

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Marilyn

Jane I am praying with you and for you as Joy's time gets nearer to when she will be in the arms of Jesus.
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Jane Walker

#104
this evening's message from
John Stephan:

It's now 5:30 PM and Joy has come to. She is unable to sit up or stand and is pretty incoherent but awake. Face is still swollen but still beautiful! Had a slice of fresh nectarine as a reward. Ah, the little pleasures that life gives us..
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Carol

Jane:  Thank you for sharing Joy's Journey to the peace beyond.  My fervent prayers to each of you who love Joy. 

Ruth Ann Bice

You continue to receive my prayers for you and all involved.

Ruth Ann
...his compassions fail not.  They are new every morning: great is thy faithfulness.


Pat

Thank you for sharing Stephen's post, Jane.

What a difficult time for the family circle.  Please know that I will continue to pray with you.

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Janet

Jane, my thoughts and prayers continue to be with you during this time.  Our God be gracious and merciful to you and all the family is my prayer.
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