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Let's get 2018 off with a new page for January

It looks like I am the first to post in the new thread. Sun is shining here today, lots of wind a little rain now and then.

I took Keith to the Doctor yesterday he is doing OK She increased his Aricept to 10 mg. Told him to cut way back on the cake and ice cream intake, get more exercise and is referring him to a dermatologist.

Hi Everyone.  Today is going to be basically a carbon copy of yesterday in terms of the weather.  We are suppose to get to 40 late this afternoon.  I plan on staying home today.  Yesterday I went with Pat on her errands and did the Walmart items as she waited in the car.  We then went to the Dollar Tree so she could get the cards she needed and while she was in there I went down to Office Depot and got the ink I needed for my printer.  It was over $50 for the four small cartridges.  They didn't stock the ones I needed at Walmart but later I found I can order them but then have to pick them up in the store and I am not sure it is worth the effort to save a couple of dollars.

Marilyn, glad that Keith seems to be doing OK.  I bet Keith didn't like the instructions from the doctor about eating the ice cream and cake. 

Break time from cleaning.    

Larry:  Thank you for putting us in a new spot.

Janet:  How did Abbey like her trip to the convention?  I hope she had a good time. 

Carol, I'm taking a break, too, from taking down the little Christmas tree Toni put up for us.  I sort of "missed" Christmas; it went by in a blur for me this time.  I'm doing a little better day by day,trying to do some things in the house, making small decisions, putting things away and losing them.  (Can't find them when I go to get them again.)  I guess all this is part of the grief process, and I'll get through it in my own time and my own way......

I'm also doing laundry, I needed to wash my coat!

Carol, Abby did enjoy her convention (or whatever it was called.)  Several girls she knows from College also went, and four of them roomed together.  I didn't get to talk to her about it much.  She went back to school yesterday, had to be there for a track meet today.  She's not participating, but has to be there for her Sports Medicine class.

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Good afternoon everyone, I guess it is afternoon, my clock says it is almost 1:00 pm.  I hope it's a good day for y'all.  (There is my Arkansas upbringing again!). It is still cold outside, so I stay indoors most of the time.  I still feel weak, can't seem to gain any strength anymore. The degenerative arthritis in my neck is still at work causing pain.  I am going to appt with my GrDtr's Chiropractor on Thursday.  Sure hope to have good results, nothing else has helped.

My other Gr-dtr and family are in the process of moving to Ft Sill, Oklahoma, a transfer her hubby received from El Paso.  Their furniture is already there, but their appt to sign for the rent house is not until Monday afternoon, so they are here waiting, at her Moms house, just down the street from me.  Using half of my garage for one of the vehicles. It is full of some of their "stuff" so they didn't want to leave it sitting on the driveway there...afraid someone might break in to steal. A friend of theirs found them a rent house in OK near the Base...talk about "sight unseen!" 😃  The friend did send Patty a video which she made at the house. Apparently they are fortunate to get a house, so few available.

Hi Everyone.  It was a cold 17 degrees when I got up this morning but suppose to get to 40 this afternoon.  I will be going to Church by myself this morning as Pat's back is really bothering her.  She is up early and using the cold pack on it.  I will bring something back for our main meal of the day.  Yesterday I just stayed home and worked in my office all morning, rested after lunch and then watched the Kansas City Chiefs lose to the Tennessee Titans.  I didn't watch the evening game as it came on too late. 

Janice, the y'all became a part of my vocabulary after I moved to Georgia more than 30 years ago.  I don't even notice it when I hear it anymore although I don't think I actually say it.    Glad your Gr-dtr and family were able to find housing at Ft. Sill.  Is her husband in the military?

Janet, I have that same problem when I clean up and reorganize things, then can't find them without a lot of searching.  I guess the message to me is to leave things where I have had them for a long time.  We each must deal with our grief in our own way.  It sounds like you are keeping pretty busy.  Glad Abby enjoyed her convention.

Carol, we get everything nice and clean and then in a few days it all has to be done again.  Glad you allow yourself breaks from those tasks. 

Well, I am doing something my mother would never allow - that is, sewing on a Sunday.  I just had to get to the cutting, ironing and sewing of a binding on a quilt.   Half of it is ready to be attached.    

Janet  So happy to hear that Abby had a good visit to the "Cow Town" as it was once known.  Now, it is the pot capital as far as I am concerned.  Abby sure keeps busy just like her g-ma.  Praying for peace of mind for you too.  Also, I wanted to mention that our middle grandchild, is majoring in Business and Sports health (am not sure of that last part) . 

Janice:  Military housing doesn't come easy.  How nice they have something decent available .  When Don was in the Air Force, newly married, he found a little and new house for rent and we were asked to water the new lawn.  that was the easy part.  Remembering horses walking in our back yard right through the clothes hanging on the line.  Remembering tumble weeds so high that the front door couldn't be opened - that was Cheyenne.   Good wishes to all of the family.  My heart goes out to our military and family included.

Janice:  I feel for your neck pain because I had surgery and pain for possibly the same.  It 4as such a long time and I went for acupuncture treatments even just a couple of years ago.  A wedge pillow was used after surgery, perhaps that might ease the pain of pulling on your neck area?  Just a thought.

Don and I have been really exhausted for several weeks and our good friend here says the same for her.  We have been wondering if we have Valley Fever - it is common, lasts five years and nothing can be done.  It is in the air we breath and affects lungs.  That is my excuse for taking a nap. 

Hi Everyone.  While it is 28 degrees this morning we are to get up to around 50 this afternoon and then the rest of the week will be warmer with possibility of some rain.  Pat thinks the improvement from the shots in her back may be over as yesterday and again this morning she is back to using the ice and taking the muscle relaxants and taking half of a pain tablet.  I just fixed her breakfast and we plan on TV Dinners, which we have in the freezer and they need to be eaten, for our main meal today probably with a little salad.  I have nothing particular on my schedule for today and don't expect to leave the house other than to go to the mailbox this afternoon.  I am looking forward to the Georgia/Alabama college football Championship game tonight and will be pulling for Georgia.  I did watch parts of both of the playoff NFL games yesterday over the weekend.  I was pulling for Carolina to beat New Orleans.  They gave them a tussle but in the end New Orleans won.  However, the Atlanta Falcons won their game on Saturday and will be in the playoffs that start this weekend. 

Carol, five years is a long time to deal with the Valley Fever and sure hope you two don't have it and will be able to get rested up.

Carol, I have never heard of Valley Fever. It will never strike here, these Plains are just that...plain and flat!  I hope you feel better soon. 
Yes, my Gr Dtr is married to a soldier, and this was a transfer. They lived at El Paso (Ft Bliss) for a number of years.  Mixed in with 3 yrs in South Korea.  When they were first married, Richard lwas an Airman stationed at the local Air Force Base. But he was out of the Air Force after awhile.  He had so much time in, that he wanted to finish up enough time to get the retirement so he signed up with the Army.  Last evening Patty sent a photo of the 3 of them standing by a big sign that said in large letters "Welcome to Oklahoma"...I wonder who made the picture?  Must have flagged down .a local person passing by!

Janice, maybe the photo was a "selfie"?  I'm terrible at taking those, must be a knack I need to learn.  I do hope the chiropractic treatment gives you some relief from the terrible neck pain!

Carol, do you anticipate continuing to "move" twice per year as the years keep rolling by?  We have thought some about finding a place in Florida close to Mark, to spend the Winter months.  Won't decide on that before visiting him there to see if we even like it.  He says we are welcome to come stay with them as long as we want, but we wouldn't impose on them like that--visit, yes, but not months!  I cannot imagine spending even three months in another location, but we do travel for a month at a time.  And I'm pretty sure we could get better plane fares from Florida than from Kansas!  I have never heard of Valley Fever before, but it surely doesn't sound good!

Larry, I'm sorry to read that Pat's back pain has returned.  Ugh. I hope she can get some relief from it, and that right soon!

Hi Everyone.  The cold has moved out and we expect to get into the low 60's this afternoon.  It didn't get to freezing last night.  I don't expect to go anywhere today unless Pat feels up to going out for our big meal.  She may not want to do that since we start our Wednesday night dinner tomorrow night at the Church.  Last night I watched Georgia University get beat by Alabama University in the college football championship game.  It was a very entertaining game and went into overtime before Alabama won.  It kept me awake until after midnight, which I something I try to avoid but this was a special event. 

Janice, how many more years does your granddaughter's husband have before he can retire from the military? 

Janet, I haven't got into doing selfie's either and doubt that I ever well other than when I need a photo of myself.  I think I need to change my Avatar to a current picture since I no longer wear glasses all day long. Will you be visiting Mark in Florida this winter.  I have never desired to have a second home as keeping up with one has been enough for me.  Pat has another follow-up appointment with the pain doctor tomorrow but pretty certain she won't be getting any more shots as it would be too soon after the last ones.  She was doing better after using the ice and taking a muscle relaxant. 

Hello again after a long time of being away.
Larry what font size and color  is best ?

Now to explain my long time away, over many years I had been helping with my parents until they passed on and then continued with my remaining aunt, mom's last living sister who did not drive also refused to go to a Dr. I cannot begin to explain it all. She was a very strong lady but thus many tears on my part as she thought that she always new best. The time arrived when she had to go to the hospital 4 times in a very short time span. Home care started and thus increased my stress. She then went to a nursing home which was not of auntie's liking, approx. 7 wks later she passed on to be with her Lord and Saviour. Her home had to be emptied which hubby and I had to do almost totally alone, a plumbing repair was urgent. The house went on the market at a lower price due to the needed expense, she lived in the home for perhaps 50yrs and nothing in the way of maintenance had been done. She new best in all of this. The estate is all most settled and after many years I am finally starting to feel better.

Janet & others that have or are living the same thing I sure know how you feel. My prayers are for all in stress.

Larry: The extreme cold spell here has finally moved on but now we can count on getting snow and freezing rain, not really sure what is best.

I have a chiro. appointment this afternoon and a little house work to get done. cheers to all   
Ruth G

[size=12pt Janice:  The Valley Fever is in the soil, so we have been told.  Have you ever seen pictures of dust storms in Arizona - there is a lot of open space where tumbleweeds fly by and it has to be so unhealthy when sand is blowing.  ---Both of us started feeling better yesterday.

Janet:  This is a nice time to visit Florida because you can sit outdoors and take a walk outside too - it sounds like Mark wants you to visit. 

Ruth:  You deserve a Rest and Recuperation as well.  You must have the patience of Job - when I think about the relative set in her way. 

Larry:  Glad your Georgia boys won the game.

We are getting messages all about the month of March -with priority for our daughter who will stay one week.  I have a cousin in Florence and we have a mutual relative who is planning to visit for one month.  That is really a long month   

It is supposed to rain tonight - that would be an oddity in the desert. 


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Ruth, good to "see" you here again!  So sorry for your years of stress, dealing with a difficult situation and one so set in her ways.  Now that the estate is nearly settled, I hope you find some peace and some time to do something nice for yourself. 

As to your question, I  find that using Bold, 14 pt. size, and the color of your choice (or black) is easy for everybody to read.  I know you asked Larry, just giving my opinion.   

Jackie, where are you these days???

Carol, Mark is anxious for us to visit, but it's going to be quite a while before we can.  I cannot imagine asking anyone to host us for a whole month, not even Mark!  And YOU must have the patience of a saint yourself!!  My goodness! 

Larry, sorry your team lost, but glad it was a close, entertaining game.  Not like the Chiefs, who didn't score at all in the second half.    I don't think we would buy anything in Florida, maybe consider renting somewhere for a couple months or something like that.  We wouldn't want the work and expense of upkeep on two places, either.

I closed Beth's bank account this morning.  Had no idea they would need a copy of her death certificate for that.

Larry, you asked me to let you know about the effects of the Zeal product.  It is living up to all the glowing praise we have heard about it, so far.  I don't think I'd have had a good night's sleep for two or three months without it, nor be able to cope with my grief and sadness.  And Darrel is doing better, has more energy and is noticing he is getting stronger all the time.  We're sold on it, and want to share it with as many people as possible.

Our wonderful chiropractor friend, who spoke at Beth's service, lost his mother last night.  She was diagnosed only two weeks ago with liver cancer that had metastasized to brain and spine.  Poor Dr. Saxon, he's her only child, so has all decisions to make alone.  I'm praying for this dear man.

I have "stuff" to do; better get with it!

Hello, Everyone, Sorry I have been AW and didn't pass the eye test. They gave me a form to have my eye dr fill out. Since I was only there 3 weeks ago he may just use that exam or perhaps have me come in to be fitted with a light pr of glasses for distance. The lady at DMV told me that the eye dr. machines are much better than theirs so they may just fill out the forms and have me take them back. I sure do need to be able to drive since Keith can't drive.

We met up with some of Keiths boys and families for lunch yesterday, they were in town for their mother's wedding on Sunday.

I'm sorry to be the bearer of sad news, but Pat just called and asked me to tell you thatJeanne's son, Ken had called to tell her that Jeanie will be going home to Glory very soon.  She is receiving palliative care now; an they are hopeful that her daughter will arrive before she goes.  Pat cannot type because of her arm, so asked me to let you know.   

Janet...Jeanne Lee's son Ken has made a posting on here, he is at her bedside...

http://www.christianphotographers.com/community/index.php?topic=13704.msg195158#msg195158

Hello friends,

I'm here and thankful to be able to post and to participate once again.

May God bless each of our loved ones who are ill and who are recovering from pain of one type or another.

Much love to all,
Ruth Ann

Jackie, thank you for the link to Ken's post.  Better to hear from the source!  I was just trying to follow Pat's instructions, but this is far better.

We plan to go to Garden City today; taking John with us, as we want to look at head stones, and want his input too.  Our weather is predicted to turn nasty later today--cold, VERY windy and a little snow.  Ugh.  We need moisture, but we do not need wind.  Cold, I can take quite well, but not with howling wind!  Sorry, I shouldn't be complaining about the weather.  Remembering what Dr. Tillotson always said, "If you're going to live here, you must make friends with the wind!"  Sigh....

I am thinking of the phrase in a song, "Going down the valley, going one by one...."  So many people I know and several that I love, have gone through that valley this Winter.  I'm getting homesick for Heaven!

Time to wake Darrel and get ready to go to Garden City.  I wish you all sweet blessings for the day.

Hi Everyone.  It is going to be a truly beautiful day as nice an sunny and going to get up to around 70 degrees.  This is going to be a very busy morning as Pat has an appointment at the pain clinic.  Then we will go to the Credit Union to have the money wired to pay off our house mortgage--no more house payments!  Then if Pat feels up to it we will go to Great Clips so she can get a haircut.  Wednesday is senior day and you save $2 over the regular cost.  While she is there I will go across the street and get some cash from the ATM and make a quick stop at Walmart for a couple of items.  This evening, as I said yesterday, we will go to the Church for the Wednesday night dinner.  After Pat's doctor's appointment yesterday we decided to stop at the Pizza Hut for the Tuesday evening buffet and more specifically just to say hi to our son.  He was busy so we had little time together but got a nice hug as we left.  He and Jennifer will be coming out to the house after dinner. 

Ruth G, so good to see your posting.  You have certainly had your hands full.  Being a caregiver is a very difficult and exhausting experience and it sounds like you have a difficult patient to deal with which didn't help any.  Then dealing with an estate is difficult work.  We did that with my folks property about 17 years ago.  Fortunately things were in very good order and we had an auction company handle the sale of the goods and the house sold easily. Glad you are experiencing a little less cold up your way.   

Carol, glad to see you both were feeling better.  Unfortunately our Georgia football team lost in overtime but it was a great and competitive game. Is your relative planning to stay with you for a whole month? 

Janet, we both use the same setting for posting here in terms of size although I usually just use black.  The nice thing about rental in a resort area would be that if you didn't like the accommodations or you decided not to go in a particular year you are not stuck with a property to tend to.  I had the same experience when I closed Stacey's bank account.  They made a copy of it and gave the original back to me.  I had gotten several copies thinking I would have to provide one for several different places but found I only needed that one copy.  Unfortunately, some way all of those copies accidentally got discarded but I have never needed one since then so haven't ordered a replacement and don't intend to.  Glad to see the Zeal product is working so well for you and Darrel.  Sad about your chiropractaor's mother passed away but sure a blessing she didn't to suffer for a long time.  Hope your trip to Garden City is not impacted by a change in your weather.  I will always remember the wind blowing so much when we lived in Oklahoma.  Is John planning moving back to where his family is located?

Marilyn, you must have been shocked not to pass the eye test.  I sure hope you will be able to continue to drive.

It is very sad to get the news about Jeanne Lee but she has been very ill and has fought a good fight. 

Jackie, that was a beautiful graphic you posted in honor of Jeanne and the statement is right on. 

Ruth Ann, nice to see you participating again.  Keep up the good work. 

Larry Hanna...
...to be honest the graphic I posted was as my every day signature but, in hindsight what wonderful timing...yes I will now be claiming this to our Jeanne Lee...this will now be in honour to her..

Larry, Yes I was in complete disbelief when I couldn't pass that eye test at DM]V. My Ophthalmologist said I don't need any correction for distance and the lady at DMV said I couldn't see far enough. What? that doesn't make any sense at all, but I sure couldn't read the chart she wanted me to read. I have heard back from my eye Dr's office yet.

Black ink - pt. 14   Let us see what this looks like.  I have used the 12 font size and it sure looks small on this laptop. 

No, no one is asking to stay with us for a full month.  It could be done but this place is small - plus Don deals with hearing loss every day and that would be too stressful.  I have one relative who would like to rent in this community for a month and I know she would think of something for us to do every day so I can't have that happen either just for Don's sake at least. 

Pat:  Praying for healing on your hand problem - We have a friend at home who fell on the ice last year and broke so many bones that her right hand is not as flexible as it should work.  We loaned her a small hand bath that uses paraffin for therapy and hope it eases the pain at least.  It was recommended for therapy on Don's hand after his surgery and it did ease the pain.

We are invited over for a ham dinner tonight and next week I have six of us for dinner.  Taking time now to make at least one phone call to a dear cousin. 

Carol, I misunderstood, as thought this person was requesting to stay a whole month with you!  Whew!

Larry, John doesn't yet know what he wants to do.  So far, he seems content here, and will feel more so when (and if) he ever gets his apartment cleaned and straightened up.  It's a mess!  He does say he wants to be buried beside Beth when that time comes, so we will purchase a double stone.  Maybe he will pay some of the cost.  Everyone keeps asking me what John is going to do, but even John doesn't have the answer to that.

We will go to the Wed. night dinner at church tonight, then to Dr. Saxon's mother's funeral in the morning at 10.

We had a safe trip to and from Garden City, for which I thank the Lord.

I cannot understand why I am getting so many of the thank you notes returned.  With cell phones, and less addresses in the phone book, it is hard to come by correct addresses, it seems.

Hi Everyone. Our day is starting out with it being around 60 degrees and it will be cloudy all day.  Yesterday was a very nice day to be out and about.  We did accomplish all of the things I wrote about yesterday including paying off the mortgage on our home.  Neither Scott nor Jennifer made it to the dinner at Church last evening but Scott did come over around 8 and visit for a couple of hours.  Today will be my normal Thursday.  I will pick up my friend and we will go to coffee downtown.  I will then bring him home and go back to the Church for the Wisdom group.  That will be it for the day. 

Pat did not get good results from the pain doctor yesterday.  Since the shots haven't held they will not give her any more.  She has an appointment with the surgeon as wants to talk to him again before making a decision about whether to try surgery as he had told her before that surgery would address only a little of her problem since the spinal stenosis is so severe. 

Carol, your font looks fine.  I use the Arial Black font and bold it as well to make it stand out more.  Glad to read that you won't be hosting for an entire month.  Remember that "no" is considered a complete sentence and it isn't necessary to justify why you say it.  I still haven't mastered that very well as may say no but then still say why.  We all are still a work in progress. 

Janet, it is probably wise for John to take time to make any decisions about where he will live.  Sorry you are having some of your thank you notes returned.  If folks don't tell you of a new address there is not much you can do about it.     

Good Day fellow prayers!  Rise and shine - it is still dark here so some don't have to get up so soon.

We had a nice dinner at our friends house last night and talked for hours.  Coming out to the car, we are all wary of the javalinas - a woman here was bitten quite badly and in hospital .  They look like an ugly pig but apparently not really a pig. 

Larry:  I find it hard to say "why" because so many do not understand Don's hearing problem - it just is not fair to him.  He doesn't mind but does almost get dizzy when there is too much noise.  I am super happy that you and Pat paid off your mortgage!!!!

Janet:  Take care of yourself and Darrel -

It was so nice of Jeanne Lee's son to post her condition the other day.  May he be comforted by knowing how much she is loved.

Hi everyone, Oboy, is it ever cold and windy outside!  Brrrr.
Today I will go to the chiropractor and hopefully get some help with this awful neck pain. It has brought tears to my eyes more times than once.
Larry, interesting that you are a credit union person...me too.  Actually my late husband was.  He was one of the original members of our CU, being member  number 16.  Dated 1952.  This was way before I met him! I still have his account so I feel sure it is the oldest account there at Cannon FCU now.  (Cannon Air ForceBase) He was a civilian employee there.

Another morning spent attending yet another funeral.  This has been such a season of loss; and still another dear friend in critical condition.  Lord, please help!

Marilyn, I sure know how you felt when you didn't pass your eye test at the DMV, as that happened to me a few years back.  I went to my eye doctor in tears!  He told me from then on to bring the paper to him to fill out, which I have done.  He told me last year he would only sign it if I promised not to drive at night any more.  I promised,
and have kept it, except I did come home a couple of times when I had no choice, and just from town.  Eye problems are no fun, for sure!

Terrible that in Canada now, little children from kindergarten on are being indoctrinated in homosexual, lesbian,
LGBTWHATEVER sinful garbage. So very sad.  And if we do not stay vigilant, it will be happening here soon!

Janice, I'm praying the chiropractor is a really good one and that you will get some much-needed relief from your visit.

Good evening everyone. I have read the posts, and there is so much sadness..  I speak to Pat quite often, not every day though.

We John and I have had health problems as well, Right now he is battling a flu virus that has attacked his upper respiratory system.  Never one to complain it is hard to see him struggling with the coughing associated with this.

God is good.  In all things He is good.  We never get more than He can handle.

God bless you all and may you experience God's Peace and Grace.

Janice:  Sorry for your neck pain - so aggravating.  Do they give you any exercise?  The cold weather doesn't help you at all.  Prayers for your ease.

Janet:  These are overwhelming times for you and Darrel.  Be sure to take time for your own recovery. 

JudyB.  So sorry that John has this year's flu.  It is so hard to get through a season of cold and flu - take care yourself.  Hi to John.  Miss his messages. 

I spent a very long time watching YouTube video of the funeral for the officer killed in line of duty at Highlands Ranch, Colorado.  The funeral was at the huge church we attend - wishing I could have been there to help in any way.  It is such a long video first showing all the cars and police just parking and walking.  I did watch the widow while she read a letter to her husband.  Peace be with the family. 

The music and solo singing in the background - I recognized the voice.  We usually sit in the separate chapel - otherwise, it is "too much" for Don's hearing.  Thank goodness the weather was decent as the line outdoors was huge, never stopping.  It was not a church service - it was a Police service and rightly so.  A long line of policemen each brought a long-stemmed white flower and placed it in a very large bowl.  Then, they would salute the casket (draped with our flag).  Very sad. 






 

Hello
This is a day that I should have stayed home due to the terrible weather, it started out as rain then freezing rain then on to the wind and blowing snow now I am home. I did feel it necessary to go the bank and lawyers although it could have waited until next week. My we sometimes fail to be patient.

Marilyn I trust you get the eye situation resolved soon.

Larry: What a wonderful feeling when the debt load is gone, in fact we are experiencing a little of the same right now as well.

I wish improved health to all. Now on to prepare dinner.
Ruth g 

Hi Everyone. After a day of rain and now a night that got down to 31 we are expecting it to get to 50 this afternoon with sun all day.  After two days of cloudy weather the sun will be welcome.  We did go out to Dairy Queen for their $5 lunch special yesterday.  I plan on attending a meeting this morning and making a quick stop at Aldi's and then late this afternoon will likely watch the football games.  They don't start until about 4:30. 

I know I wrote a posting here yesterday but it must not have posted and I didn't notice. 

Janet, sorry to see that you have lost another friend and had to attend a funeral so soon after your own loss.  Sure glad you are still able to drive during the daytime.  I agree with you on some of the things that are being taught small children in school. 

Judy, sure nice to see your posting here and hope your health problems are improving.  So sorry to read that John is battling a flu virus.  Almost every night now on the National news they have a short story about how severe the flu is here in the USA.  One of my coffee drinking friends mentioned on Thursday that his cardiologist had suggested that he avoid going to Church or other places with a large number of people because of the flu.  I probably should consider the same thing but attending Church is a big part of my life. 

Carol, they showed just a snippet of the funeral for the officer in Highlands Ranch on the news the day of the funeral.  I particularly noted that the procession of police and firemen took up almost a mile. 

Ruth, you sound like me in your going to the bank and lawyers as when I have something I have decided to do I want to get it done and don't like to wait. Sure glad you got safely home as that freezing rain can be so dangerous.  You are right it sure is a good feeling to once again know my home is paid for.  The peace of mind is worth what it may cost of us lost interest on the investments we used but that could also vanish quickly if the markets go down.  Glad you are also experiencing a little of the same feeling.

Done a short morning walk, the first time out I guess in a month....was tough going as both legs were trying to buckle on me...and to make matters worse, I never saw one person to even talk too...but for a few minutes I got out to breathe some fresh air, and to take in what would be some fantastic views that circle our stuck down in the valley site...

Had another ( mental ) breakdown...my MS body messed up, cant get hold of anyone..GP surgery closed, the MS helpline closed, my homelife took another dose of abuse, shouting - threatening at each others face....he makes sure he picks his moments...when I am in pain and practically crawling from room to room...Someone very close to us ( our forums, I shan't name the person, ) once gave me some good advice and help, round four years ago...I never took it - acted upon it then, then MS came along, followed by moving with him, downsizing, to clear my heavy debts..Previously staying to see out my three dogs, now no dogs, no debts, yet I am still trapped...
As they say..." tomorrow is another day..."

Jackie, I am sending prayer upward for your situation.

Ruth, I am always happy to see your posts. I wondered what had happened to you and why you quit posting. So good to see you back.

I still have to get the form filled out that the accountant sent us for our taxes. Plus other legal stuff to get taken care of while Keith is still able to understand what they are and why it is necessary. he is doing well so far and had an increase in the Aricept to 10 mg from 5. There are things that we have to get his name off of like the house and his Corvette, not use the bank accounts since they are joint accounts, I will have to ask an attorney.

I'm sorry for the problems among us.  I decided it might do me good to go to my painting group today, so I drove to Lakin, about 30 miles, to my friend's house who drives the long part.  (I give her gas money.)  The project wasn't one I would choose, but it only cost $1.00, so that's fine.  It was painted on wrapping paper!  It was good to see my painting friends again after many months, but I think I need to drop out, because of my eyesight. It's really hard for me to drive; then part of the time I couldn't even see when my brush touched the surface of the paper. 

When I got home I was feeling pretty bum, and am feeling worse now.  Maybe a cold, not sure, but it's only 2 1/2 weeks until we leave on that big trip, and I surely do NOT need to be sick!  I'm ready to go to bed and really hope I can sleep and feel better in the morning.

Love and prayers to each of you.

Janet Oil of Oregano, quick. A natural antibiotic.

Hi Everyone.  We are back to winter temperatures again today.  It was 26 degrees when I arose and will only get up to the low 40's this afternoon.  The only thing on the agenda is going to Sunday School and Church.  I will bring the devotional for our Sunday School this morning and perhaps lead the singing of the two hymns, which I have done for the last two weeks.  I no longer have a strong voice but can read the music and sing on key and we have a microphone.  After Church I will stop somewhere and bring something home for our main meal of the day.  Pat has come down with a bit of bronchitis and has been doing a lot of coughing.  However, she has been using Zicam and she thinks the cough is better this morning.  Her back is feeling better this morning also and she didn't start the day with the icepack.  Hopefully she will be able to enjoy a good day.

Jackie, glad to see you were able to get outside but sorry to see your legs didn't want to cooperate.  So sorry your day was so difficult and will put you in my prayers. 

Marilyn, it seems there is never an end to the paperwork.  You are wise to attend to the legal stuff now rather than struggling with it later.  Glad to see the Aricept is helping. 

Janet, glad you were able to be with your painting group yesterday but sorry to see you feel you may have to give that up as you are such a good artist and know you enjoy doing it.  I hope you are not coming down with a cold. 

I am reposting a message from Jeanne Lee's son in case you haven't seen it as she has been a wonderful friend to all of us for many years and gave unselfishly to our discussions:

This is Ken again,

It's with a heavy heart that I tell her dear friends, Jeanne Lee passed at 9:00 AM Thursday morning, Jan 11, 2018.

Alice (her daughter) and I were at her side when she passed very peacefully.  The last words she spoke to me Monday, were, "What would I do without you?" She paused a moment, took a breath and then said "I'm going to be with Jesus soon". 

Her friends, her family and her faith gave her so much joy and comfort. She considered all of you her family. Pat, she loved you and thought of you as the sister she never had.   

My brain tells me I will miss her less as time move on, my heart is not so sure. There will never be a day that goes by I will not think of her.  She was a good friend and a dedicated mother.

Per her wishes, she will be cremated and there will be no memorial service other than a mention during Sunday's church service.

Ken Corson

email kencorson1952@gmail.com

Larry, thank you for sharing Ken's very sad news.  Jeanne was so loved, and will be so missed.  I note that she passed away exactly one month after my Beth.  By the time we join them, they will have met and become fast friends.  This news saddens me, as I feel the loss of her prayers, and her friendship.

I hope Pat does have a better day today.  Glad you feel like singing, and the microphone should help you to be heard.  I know your church appreciates what you do for the Lord in their midst.  You are a blessing!

Marilyn, I have no Oil of Oregano, and there's no place here that I know of, to get any.  I did take Zicam, and the Zeal should be a big help.  I didn't go to church this morning, as felt it wouldn't be wise to do so.  I'm sure John is wondering where we are!  I tried to call him, but he leaves for church early, and I missed him.  Will call later.

I'm so sad for Pat H. hearing about Jeanne.  She loved her so much, even though they'd never met in person. I feel that way about several on this site, too.

Since I am home today I plan to begin getting my things together for the upcoming trip.  We really need to pack carefully, as there are weight limits.  So no unnecessary items, and a minimum of clothes!

Time for my Zeal and more water.  Go away, cold!

I, just now, received the notice about Jeanne's passing and realize I needed to be here during this time.  I have been reading, nearly every day, on both forums -- this and Seniors and Friends -- but have found it just about more than I can manage to join in the discussions.  My input seems so anemic and I am at a loss for words to add or be of comfort or otherwise.

Jeanne was among the very first to welcome me to the big WWW ... she helped me in so many ways.  When we were all learning HTML, making our web pages, downloading and posting graphics, and so much more.  I was on AOL back then and everything seemed contrary to the other carriers ... she was so patient and longsuffering in helping me figure out the code to be able to keep up with everyone else.  There have been a few times when I have been privileged to speak with her on the phone.  I can't imagine being without those moments.  I know that is a selfish thing to say.  Everyone of us will miss her deeply, but I know her heart was always turned toward Heaven.  RIP dear Jeanne Lee. 

We will all miss Jeanne.  Sending prayers and love to the family. 

We cannot go to church for perhaps another month because..... the flu and a terrible cough are at the highest level in this area right now.  Many events are being cancelled - and that is the right decision. 

Right now, we are concerned & praying for a full recovery for grandson's concussion at a hockey game.  He is being well cared for with the dark room no sound room therapy.  I will find out more later. 

We have been invited to drive to Lake Havasu and stay over a night with a cousin at a time-share they were given.  Problem is - the drive is 6 1/2 hours each way and I will have to say no as that is too taxing at this point. It did sound nice for a change.  We will meet them later in the week. 

Don is enjoying the Vikings game!  I have been quilting pot holders for gifts. 

I think the hardest part to take in, is that we are aware members are ill, have longterm illnesses to deal with but, what we dont know is how bad they are, or how long they have been dealing with it in silence from us..Well that is until we lose them, then it really shocks the system, because we think they will be here forever...
...I too will miss her and her smiling face...

I will say a goodnight..it is midnight...wishing our members a peaceful and restful sleep...

Just thought that rather that re-typing my thoughts about my close friend, Jeanne with my painful arm and in a cast, I will repost what I wrote:



Oh Jeanne, Jeanne, Jeanne!!  How I will miss you my dear, dear friend. 

June 1996 was when we became close, close friends two months after SeniorNet started...22 years!

Three days before she went Home to Glory, we spoke on the telephone sharing how both of us were so ill but somehow together we'd keep going with what had to be done on the websites. 

We prayed together for each other and for some of our members who were ill or had other problems.  Just before hanging up, Jeanne said, "My God hath done all things well!"  and then,  "Pat, I'm sure I can look after things until you are well enough to do things.",

About three days later, I got the phone call from Ken.   

I have no idea how we'll be able to even begin to fill Jeanne's size 12 shoes.  We always kidded each other when we compared our feet size--mine are size 13!

It will take time to get things working like Jeanne and I envisioned but with my illness (since November 1,2015), taking up such a huge space in my day to day life, it's certainly going to be difficult.

Again my dear friend Jeanne, I love you and will remember you fondly in the years to come.    

It is with mixed emotions I read about Jeanne.  Sad for our respective loss and for the empty chair in the family, however rejoicing that she is no longer in pain and is with her Savior.

Prayers go out to the family, during this time of mourning.

I am so saddened. I will miss you Jeanne. God bless you. My prayers are being said for your family

Soon leaving for an MS therapy Centre...this is my nearest and only choice which is 46 -47 miles away...a 2 hour 40 - 50 minute two way journey, which takes us into the next county.... Went there once before soon after I moved here but thought the journey too long, and too far, too many buildings near to it, ( not particularly an inviting area ) and the parking was diabolical...Oh well, if I want some communication, a therapy or two, I have no choice...Apparently a nearer centre closed 2 months before I moved here, because of lack of funds, isn't that the norm... same as our hospitals and care-homes...or any places that help or look after the needy or disadvantaged...

Of course the person who is taking me will be welcomed, little will they know that he was volatile to me recently and at a time when my MS was at one of its worst...as usual he will " talk all sweetness and light " although it was another short episode, that given time, I will and do, revert back to my usual MS state...The nerves in my legs are still going " ten to the dozen..." but this is my norm...

Pat...
...bless you, it is so heartening to know that you both pray-prayed for your members-our Christian family...
...Big heart-big feet, what more can I say...

I meant to have said..." heartwarming " not heartening, apologies but too late to correct, time ran out...

Hi Everyone. We have a very crisp but sunny day here in South Carolina and are not to get above the mid-40's after getting down into the mid-20's last night.  I plan on staying inside and warm today.  Nothing on the calendar that demands particular attention so will just work on some non-priority projects here in my office.  Pat's congestion is breaking up a bit but she is still coughing.  It doesn't seem to have turned into a cold. 

Our men's group, with the help of some of the women in the Church, will do the annual Project Warm this coming Friday and Saturday.  They hope to work on 8 or 9 houses that need repair for people who cannot afford to handle the repairs.  The supplies needed are paid for by one of the charities here and the Church supplies the labor.  This is the 7th or 8th year are men's group has done this on an annual basis.

Janet, I am happy to help out in Sunday School and use the talents God has given me to the extent I am able. I don't mind being in front of a group.   I hope you are feeling better this morning and can take things easy this week to give yourself time to get rid of the cold and further rest up.

Jane, just seeing your name appear on a posting is a blessing, at least to me, to know that you are OK.  I think Jeanne was a very intelligent person and was certainly a big help to us and was a wonderful friend and we will miss her.  I remember how active she was in her Church when she was able to attend. 

Carol, I probably should stay away from Church while the flu is rampant but it just isn't likely as it is an integral part of my life and has been since I was 3 years old.  I noticed our attendance was down quite a lot yesterday but heard only one small child coughing and he was well in front of me.  So sorry to hear that your grandson suffered a concussion.  That is such a hard contact sport I suppose that isn't a two unusual occurrence but frightening non-the-less.  That was some game the Vikings played yesterday afternoon and winning on the last play will certainly be memorable for that quarterback and the player who caught the long pass and found the way open in from of him to the goal line.  I really don't understand the reason for them having to bring the players back for the point after since the game was won. 

Jackie, you certainly stayed up late last night.  I don't function well after about 9 pm.  I hope you get some help today from the therapy center.  We do what we have to do. 

Pat, that was a beautiful message.  I agree it will be difficult to pick up all the things that Jeanne and you have done for us here on this site but hopefully we can learn but things do change overtime. 

Larry Hanna...
...the annual membership has been paid...I will be going this Friday for a thing, or I call it a thing as I have yet to see what this is about...but something that interested me last time I went there 18mths or so...This " thing " is called Gong Bath...not actually a bath but, quoting: " A gong bath is a form of sound therapy where the gong is played in a therapeutic way to bring about healing..."
....not sure its weekly though...

The journey over was quite interesting, first a large adult deer stood in the middle of the lane road, but ran back to the wooded bushes just in time as we approached, we did slow down the car on approach...Then at our half way mark, and because my bladder needed to empty, we stopped of at an old country-style pub...of course I had to now order a coffee...I was very taken by its decor as my eyes looked above me, all around the wooden beams there were army hats, so many, all very different, the beams were covered in them... I of course asked the very friendly young staff what was the Idea behind them, what was the story...It just turned out that the locals started it off around 6 years ago, then more hats, berets got added...think one of their grandfathers may have started it off...As I say, the young staff were very welcoming and friendly, nothing was too much trouble...the place was as good as empty, bar 2 working looking men who got out of their van as we arrived, 2 out of 3 coal fires burning...dining tables set...not a large pub, but 3 separate places to go sit...

As for the MS centres therapies, they do counselling, pilate's, reflexology, they do more but these were the ones she mainly mentioned...on the downside, once again the place-the main seating area, looked empty, so no one to talk to but, she did say that therapies were taking place, so that is where they were, I guess...Oh they do supposedly meet midday, Wednesdays and Thursdays for a tea-coffee and snack-lunch, ok if you dont have too far to travel...

Link to Gong Bath....this is not the place I shall be going to...

  http://www.sound-gong-bath.co.uk/gong-bath-nut-shell

Pat:  Thank you for all you do for us.  Sending up a prayer for your health.  Prayers for all who have been close to Jeanne - I will remember her positive attitude.

Larry:  We spoke to grandson on Facetime - and he looked great.  It can be rough game at times and the opposing team player had a penalty for hitting after grandson passed the puck to another for a goal (called an assist) - off to sit in a box went the offending player. 

We are trying to set up a visit with a cousin & her husband (a veterinarian who was thrown from a horse - operated on and they found a cancer that was previously undetected so it was a good thing after all ).  Anyway, they are visiting from Minnesota at the end of this month but staying with another cousin. 

At the end of the Vikings football game - the guy who ran in for a last  touchdown to win the game - gave credit to first (Jesus Christ - second to his wife and third the play).  It hasn't been mentioned much in the news - a wonderful Christian value in action. 

Jacqueline:  That sounds like a meditation event.  Is that the purpose?  It is always a wonder to watch wildlife in nature.  Glad that you enjoyed the drive.   

Hello friends,
I am feeling really dizzy and sleepy today, think it's time for a nap for me.  I will not get out today again, as I'm determined to give my body the best chance for a rapid recovery.  I shouldn't be surprised that I am feeling bad, as I know that months of constant stress take a toll on our physical bodies.

Gong Baths.....hmmmm--that's certainly a new one to me!  It sounds like a case of mind over matter.  Or anyway,
something that you would have to believe strongly would help you, or it wouldn't.  Just my opinion, of course.

I need to go visit my friend Maxine, also have another friend in the hospital; but I don't dare go around them until I am completely over whatever this is that is attacking my body.

Much love to you all..........

When you have MS you give anything a try if indeed it helps...and if this does, I will be grateful...told others MS'ers have benefited...

Here is a link to the page where Jeanne's son posted about her passing.  This will make it easier for people to view and comment.

http://www.christianphotographers.com/community/index.php?topic=13710.new#new

Carol...
...not sure what to expect, not sure if its meant to send messages to, or from, the brain, or, messages to the nerves, relating to our MS...I notice it is done by laying on the floor, not sure how we are meant to do that...and if we do, how we are meant to get back up...

Hello!!
I have not been on in a long time. Judy just messaged me on FaceBook about Ruth Jeanne Lee...  I am so sad for her family..... they will miss her; however she is with her Saviour!! 

Margit and I became friends with Jeanne Lee many years ago, she was a lovely lady, but to be with the Lord is far better, so although she will be greatly missed, she has gone on before, and fond memories of her will remain. God bless and comfort her family.

Hi Everyone.  It is another chilly but beautifully sunny day here in South Carolina and we will be getting into the mid-40's again this afternoon.  It seems to be the normal pattern here for a freeze at night but getting above freezing during the day.  The local weather said we have a chance to get a few snow flurries tomorrow morning during the drive time to work. 

Pat is quite ill with bronchitis.  Last night she got so weak that she had to call me out of a sound sleep to help her get up out of her chair and get into the bedroom. She was so weak she was shaking.  She is stronger this morning but still has a terrible cough and feels bad.  I don't think this is the flu as she has no other symptoms. I have no plans for today other than to be available to help her as she may need.

Jackie, I have never heard of the Gong Bath and my first thought was if you get down on the floor how are you and other suppose to get up.  I did read about with the link you provided. Glad you had an interesting ride yesterday and a stop at a pleasant pub.  At least going there gets you out of the house for a little while and hopefully the opportunity to speak with others. I am confused as to whether you will do the Gong Bath or not. 

RuthV, nice to see your posting and hope you won't be a stranger.  Are you still doing taxes for others? 

Chris & Margit, it is also very good to see your posting and hope you will join us here occasionally and share a little of what is going on in your lives. 

Carol, glad you grandson looked good and you were able to talk with him.  I did see the Viking player give praise to Jesus Christ as the first thing he said.  I have seen a number of other players do the same thing.  Since most of the news seems to be biased against Christians it isn't surprising they didn't show that clip later.

Janet, I am sure glad to read that you are trying to give yourself time to rest and recover.  I do understand about constant stress and know what it can do to us. 

Larry Hanna...
...yes good question...I know that with yoga and-or Pilates sessions these MS therapy Centres usually run two, one following the other...Which then allows us to choose either the sitting down session, which would be suitable to wheelchair users, the other session for those able to stand but, I dont know about this Gong Therapy session as to what options if any it will give..all I have now been told is to bring a blanket with me...the blanket is to cover ourselves rather than to lay on, I am assuming..

Jackie, I misread what you said.  You meant the session the link was for was not the one you would be attending and I mistook it to mean you would not be attending a Gong Bath (interesting name!)
at all.  Surely, they would plan on helping people up off the floor, wouldn't they?

I'm staying in again today.  By doing so, I hope to be completely over whatever this is by tomorrow!  Too many times, I have not waited long enough, and then got worse again.  I don 't want to make that mistake this time!

Larry, I'm so sorry to read that your Pat is ill, and will pray for a rapid recovery for her.  She's had enough problems already!

Chris and Margit, so good to see a posting from you!  It's been too long.  Please come chat with us again soon. And you, too, Ruth V.!

Carol, glad your grandson is doing well, hope he will have no lasting damage!

I'm going to make myself (and Darrel) a big dark leafy greens salad.  Just what the eye doctor ordered!

JudyB:  Thank you for setting up the notice from Jeanne's son.  I do hope you and John are well and winter hasn't been too tough on you this year. 

Larry:  Pat has bronchitis - sorry, I hope that she really is feeling better today and recovers soon.  I found the broth in  Campbell's Chicken Won Ton soup so soothing - add only 3/4 can of water if you think she would like a bowl of chicken soup.

It is nice to see some familiar names in here - RuthV, Chris and Margrit!  Please stop by and let us know how you are faring? 

Janet:  You are still in prayer.  Keep on going out the door  and visit a lot-  as to grandson, he has already seen the trainer/medical person and will see a doctor too.  They take wonderful care of the sports - think of their liability if they didn't. 

Don downloaded a little app on the laptop and it is called Adblock Plus - it surely is holding advertising down - the irritating pop-up ads I mean.  Free download.   

Hi Everyone. It is going to be a rainy and chilly day with the temperatures going down during the day and staying in the mid-30's.  They say we are going to have some light snow later this morning but it should melt as it hits the ground and pavement. 

I have a very sick wife as she definitely has the flu to go with the bronchitis.  I was able to get her to eat a little applesauce and a piece of toast this morning.  I just fixed a bowl of jello (the first I have ever mixed up I think).  The only thing besides taking care of her is to finish up the grocery order so I can pick it up tomorrow and to take care of Pat.  This evening I will meet the rest of the family for Wednesday night dinner at the Church.  They will not be coming out this evening.  Jennifer has a friend from Kentucky visiting with her for a few days and she will be my guest at dinner this evening.  I am hopeful I can avoid catching the flu from her.  One advantage of us both using the CPAP machines is that we don't breath on each other during the night. 

Jackie, when I read about the Gong Therapy it inidcated the leader provided mats for the floor and the participates provided their own pillows and a blanket.  I have a lot of difficulty standing up when I have to get down on my knees and getting up from laying on the floor would be difficult.  I have to have something to push myself up with to get up as my legs are not very strong. 

Janet, wise to stay in until you feel back up to doing things. There is very little that we do that can't be done on another day.  Pat is very weak with this flu and still doesn't have much of a voice.  We had a baked potato with butter and sour cream along with a small lettuce salad for our dinner last night. 

Carol, I just checked and we do have some cream of chicken soup so maybe she will try some of that later today. I have used the Adblock Plus for sometimes and it does help. 

Prayer for Pat!  Larry,  take care of yourself as well.

We are invited to our friend's house for dinner along with her cousin & husband.  I promised a cole slaw salad so there is red and green cabbage plus in this salad.  Too many times this happens to me and it happened again yesterday.  Someone stole my grocery cart.  Yes, I had one red cabbage, one green cabbage, plus two green apples.  I park the cart to give people space & lo and behold - it disappears, never to be found again.  My friend was there to verify the incident.  Don't ask me why but this happens too often.  I forgive them.

  It is windy and in the low 40's here - since October, the temperatures have been way above normal, rain is needed. 

Larry:  That was Campbell's Chicken Won Ton soup - it has a thinner broth.

Larry Hanna...
...my thoughts are with your lady wife Pat...can you not call a doctor from your-her GP surgery to pay a home visit?

...Larry, if I was to go down, it is something I have to do in my own way to get myself back up...it is no good someone holding out their arm or hand for me..that wouldn't help me at all...But I do have to say, that if I had nothing to grab hold off, I would not be able to get myself up, I would need something firm-stable to grip onto, I would also have to turn my body around, and most probably get up via my knees...I haven't needed to give this a try outdoors yet, only indoors...but there was one time a few months back that I took Toby downhill whilst holding onto my walker, stopped briefly to speak to our parkhome site manager and Toby swung me around and almost pulled me down...if I had gone down there I would have fallen on some grass with open space around me...I am so thankful I never went down, although I did lose my balance though..If I had of gone down, I know not even with the parkhome managers help, he wouldn't have gotten me up...in fact I dont think anything would have..

Carol...
...you forgive them but...can they forgive themselves? that is the question...re, your grocery cart...

Janet...
...do whatever it takes and in your own time...I can only offer one piece of advise and that is...." listen to your body..." then act on what it is telling you..

...Janet, yes, I too am into dark leafy greens, recommended by Dr Terry Wahls...I am part following her and Professor George Jelinek, they both give good advice...

Marilyn...
...sounds like you need a third opinion, re, your eyesight-eye test...
.....................................................................
Got my hair cut today...got rid of six months growth...it is now shorter and layered...I feel much lighter...

I keep expecting Jeanne Lee to pop in and make a posting - a reply...oh how I wish it was possible...

I do not need a third opinion about my eyes. My eye Dr. filled the form and I have it. It states that I do not need any glasses for driving that my distance sight is no problem driving. So now I  can go to DMV and prove to them that their machine is not a good judge to go by, and take my written test and get on with my driving.

Marilyn...
...I misread that...your Ophthalmologist opinion is what is important, they have your true result......

Yes larry, I am still doing taxes..... I noticed that the Canada Revenue Agency is not opening up their online submissions until February 26th.... I think last year it was February 20, 2017 when I filed mine!! (so I have a wee bit more time to work on other things)
Marilyn, My husband had the same problem in 2003-2004 and needed our Ophthalmologist to fill out a form to prove the machine wrong...
We are still young enough (LOL) not to have to take the written tests!!

I'm just stopping by to say hello.  Still not feeling well, but we did go to lunch at the Sr. Ctr. today, then saw our heart Dr. for a checkup, which went fine for us both.  I guess we will go to the Wed.
night dinner at church.

I don't have much to say, so I'm not saying much. 

Hi, friends,

I'm catching up on the computer. Haven't even turned it on for a number of days.

Not much to say, so I'll sign off, hoping that our Lord's presence will be felt by every person participating in this site.

Love to all,
Ruth Ann

Hi Everyone.  It is a cold 21 degrees here this morning but will get into the upper 40's late this afternoon.  We did have snow all morning yesterday but nothing accumulated in our area nor did the roads get slick.  Today will be a sunny day. All I have planned for today besides trying to see that Pat is well taken care of is to go to coffee and then attend the Wisdom group and finally stop to pick up an online grocery order at Walmart.  Pat is really not feeling any better this morning but did get a good nights sleep and had slept several hours during the day yesterday.  I just fixed her a scrambled egg with a little cheese on it wrapped in a tortilla .  In fact I fixed it twice as the first time I put some seasoning on it like she always does but it was too salty for her so we threw it out and fixed her another. 

Carol, I don't think I have ever had anyone take my grocery cart.  Glad you didn't have many items in it so you would have to repeat too many steps.  Was the store short on grocery carts? I am going to get some chicken while I am out and make some chicken soup as Pat thinks that sounds good (of course she hasn't had any chicken soup that I have made so that remains to be seen.  This will be a first for me.)

Jackie, as far as I know we have no doctors that will make a home visit and we can get to a prompt care facility as there are two close by.  However, it will have to be her decision.  I suggested it yesterday afternoon but until she makes the decision it won't be happening.  I just checked and there are a number of websites and videos available showing ways an older person can get up from a fall.  You might finds some of the ideas helpful.  I just searched for "How to get up from a fall". 

Marilyn, glad to see you have the necessary paperwork so you will be able to continue to drive.

Ruth V, have they shortened up the time you have to file or just given tax filer a shorter period of time.  I can never file until mid-March as always one document I need is late in arriving although we do get non-final reports earlier so can get ready after being sure the amounts haven't changed. 

Janet, glad you felt up to going to lunch and hopefully to the Wednesday night dinner at your church.  Those are two meals you didn't need to prepare.  Sure hope today finds you feeling better. 

Ruth Ann, just good to see your posting.  I guess you have had a lot of that wintry mixture called snow. 

Larry Hanna...
...I will do a search for how to get up from a fall when you have Multiple Sclerosis...Ahh think I may have found one...although no mention if there isn't anything to grab hold of such as out in the open...


https://www.sharecare.com/health/living-with-multiple-sclerosis/how-get-up-fall-ms 


  ...Larry, similar situation here, at one time many years ago it was quite the norm for a GP doctor to do a home visit, now they have made it so much harder in what they stipulate...if they can get out of doing it, they will...

Good morning!     I have been reading, and praying for, all the difficulties and illness reported by all of you, my friends.  I also have been struggling for quite a while with some issues, but have refrained from interfering here when there are already so many situations for which to be concerned.  However, within the past week, it seems there is more than I can bear alone.   

For some time I have been concerned for my grandson, Bryan.  He has been diagnosed Bipolar, and 100% disabled with PTSD.  He has always been difficult to deal with because of ADHD and other problems.  His mother, Joy, watched over him and helped him "remember" to pay bills, keep appointments, etc.  But she has been gone for over a year, now, and he has been floating in the wind.

Ever since Joy died, Bryan has been in trouble in one way or another.  Recently John (his step-dad) wrote that he has "been homeless for 2-3 months" and has whatever he still owns in storage but he doesn't think Bryan will remember to pay the storage fees, so will probably lose that, too. John has never had a favorable view or attitude toward Bryan (Joy always ran interference between the two) so he has no sympathy now.  In fact, he told me "don't feel sorry for him, he did this to himself" ... How can I not care ... he is my grandson.

Bryan won't ask for help ... and he hates having anyone telling him what to do ... so I suppose I should let him crash and burn by himself, but that hurts me more than it does him.  John says he showed up at his house over the weekend with some friends whom John had invited to be his guests.  Bryan had gone to their home and asked if he could stay there and they told him okay for a couple nights ... John said that turned into a few weeks. 

John has kept me updated on Bryan, periodically since Joy's death, but he is planning to relocate to "somewhere off the grid" in Missouri, where he has been building a cabin.  Once he is gone, I will have no one from whom I can get information.  This is really causing a heavy heart on this Grandma.  I pray, and I would appreciate prayers from anyone else who knows me and this situation.  Thank you for letting me unload a bit here.

Jane, I will certainly be praying for you and for Bryan.

Jane...
...I shall say a prayer on your behalf for a solution all around, that like a new jigsaw, all pieces will fit together in the end for everyone......My late father would always say..." a problem aired, is a problem shared..."

Oh, dear Jane, you are always welcome to unload here.  We are friends, and friends help each other, in whatever ways we can.  While we cannot help Bryan, in material ways, we can pray for him--and for you.  We Grandmas do hurt for our grandkids, and always love and want to help them.  It's sad that John doesn't seem to understand the underlying reasons for Bryan's seeming irresponsibility, but he doesn't and likely never will, so that avenue of help is closed to him.  Has he contacted Veterans' organizations that may be able to help him?  He should never have gotten into the service with those problems, but that's water under the bridge. They accepted him, now his problem is greatly increased by the PTSD.  So there should be some kind of help available for him.  Does he have the desire and opportunity to try to find help for himself?  If not, maybe you could search online and see if you can find something that sounds promising.  (I'm grasping at straws here, not knowing anything about Bryan other than what you have told us.)  They help all kinds of people--illegals, criminals, sex offenders, etc., so they certainly should help a former service member!!  All of this may not be of any help at all, but please know we do care, Jane!  And come in and unload just any time you need to!

I'm feeling somewhat better today, so by taking it easy for a couple more days, I hope to be completely cleared of this crud.  (Whatever it is!)

Larry, I'm sorry Pat isn't feeling better.  Isn't it a wonderful plan God had--marriage?  When one of us feels bad,
the other is able to help, but if you're single, then who will help?  (Yes, thinking of the scripture about that.)

We both have appointments in a few minutes; gotta run!

This is a quote from John's message to me:

"He won't seek help from agencies like the VA. He won't be anywhere where they tell him what to do. His belongings are in a storage locker up here he says but don't know if he remembers to pay the rent. He is poised to lose everything but is too depressed to deal with it. He slept almost the entire time he was here."

As John's guests were leaving, Bryan had their son go with him to retrieve his truck which had been parked at a motel for a while.  There had been threats to have it towed, I guess, so he ended up bringing it to John's.  But John said he couldn't park it at his place "leave it on the street" ... then, as John was leaving for golf the next morning he saw the cops getting ready to tow it so he talked them out of it and has it parked on his property "down by the creek" .... he says "Now I'm sorry I did since I know he will never pick it up. I am packing to move to MO and can't deal with more junk. So I am giving him 2 weeks to come get it or I will have it towed."   

This is all I know ....  I have no way to get in contact with Bryan .... I don't know where he is. 

Good morning, everyone.  I am not feeling well this morning, but hope to begin feeling better.  I got bad news yesterday, my sister passed away, in Arkansas.  She was in a nursing home for several years, as she was having strokes. The last one took away her ability to talk, so she had poor quality of life after that. I can't go, travel is out of the question right now. 

Hi, friends,

It is good to take a moment to check in.

Jane, I'm so sorry about Bryan. I will pray that God will reveal a way for you to reach him. I well remember our conversation at the Georgia Bash.

Today I'm working on a data project and will leave to see about my sister in law's cat in a few moments. I hope the last snow has melted enough to make it safer for me to go to her apartment.

Y'all have a good rest of the day.

Ruth Ann

Reading the messages today certainly can put little annoying things into a different perspective.  My issues are minimal compared to so many.  May the Peace be with you!

Jane:  Prayers for Bryan - hearts are hurting for his situation. 

Janice:  Sincere sympathy on the loss of your sister.   

It is almost embarrassing for me to admit - I came in here to grouse about the backyard mess a herd of Javelina (like a hog) made last night.  They even ate fabric cushions on our two rockers.  So, we found something to ring the perimeter of the yard and it is like a coyote odor which is their enemy.  I only hope it doesn't attract coyotes. 

Ruth Ann:  Take care on the slippery snow.  this year, the snow seems to be landing more southern than usual. 

Larry:  Is Pat feeling better?  The flu is rampant here - and we are trying to stay away from crowds.  Does Pat knit?  I bought some yarn and may start a winter scarf - perhaps.  The large crock pot has a ham bone simmering with split peas and it tastes like it will be good tonight.  My only sewing at the moment is to finish 3 pairs of hot pads for gifts. 

Larry - Carol...
...they are saying the same here in UK as well, about the flu...I refrain from having the flu jab because it is controversial - debatable as to whether it is safe for us with MS to have it...may cause a relapse...It is also my choice not to..

They have just this minute said on our tv news that UK is in the the grip of the worst flu season in seven years..

Early to rise - it is still dark outside.  I tried to check if animals were roaming in the yard and could not see any movement - however, I will not put the trash out until it is light here. 

It has to be so difficult for the people in California losing everything in their homes and they also have mud covered lots.  We get heavy news barrages of events and then nothing - on to whatever the media chooses to mention. 

Yesterday was the first day since October that I did not have an allergy headache.  My doctor appointment is at the end of this month so it will be wonderful to get this solved.  Thinking that yesterday was a Praise Day!

My goal for today is to make enough cooked oatmeal with dried cranberries and freeze portions - call two dear friends and first go and read devotions.  Yesterday was spent organizing and cleaning under the sinks, laundry.   

Hi Everyone. It looks like our really cold whether, for us, is probably over for a few days at least.  We should get up to around 60 degrees this afternoon. I have nothing on the agenda for today unless Pat decides to go to Prompt Care (which she just decided to do).  However, she seems to be feeling better this morning and last evening ate a decent meal.  She had a long nap after her shower yesterday afternoon.  Later she came to bed for a couple of hours and then had a coughing spell and got up and spent the rest of the night sleeping on and off in her easy chair.  Hopefully the worst of this flu is over for her although most people continue with the cough for a few weeks. 

Jackie, glad you found an article on getting up when you have MS.  Maybe when you go outside, which is probably not a wise idea by yourself, you could carry a whistle in your pocket or around your neck to help get someone's attention were you to fall.  Making housecalls isn't a good use of a doctor's time since they can see several patients in the time that it would take to make a housecall.  There seems to be such a demand for the doctor's time anymore that it probably isn't reasonable to do housecalls. 

Jane, so glad you shared your deep concerns with us so that we can at least pray for Brian and for you.  We love our families, including our cyber family here,  and it is indeed painful to see situations like you describe. It is very difficult to help someone who isn't willing to be helped and Bryan is an adult.  I so wish I had some words of comfort for you. 

Janet, are you suffering from a bad cough to go with the crud?  You may be battling the flu as so many people are.  I sense that Pat is feeling better today but still has a long ways to go.  She doesn't think she has ever run any temperature.  I was thinking yesterday what a blessing it is that during this time Pat isn't well that I seem to have found some new strength so that I can be of more help to her.   

Janice, you have my condolences in the lose of your sister. 

Ruth Ann, is your sister-in-law again in the hospital and thus your need to look after the cat.  With ice and snow doing that makes it dangerous for you to deal with the responsibility. 

Carol, those javelinas are making your lives miserable.  I hope you fix works to keep them away. I do think Pat is feeling better but it is just going to take time for her to recover.  Apparently the flu is bad all over the country.  Pat does not knit and never has.  She used to croquet but now she only deals with quilting and small projects with material.  She recently has been working on pot holders.  We are using the Instant Pot today to add some humidity into our living area as it is down to 16%.  We just leave the lid off of it and leave the lid off of it.  We also decided to not wipe down our shower as we have been doing so that hopefully it will add some moisture to the house. The housekeeper always cleans the shower so don't know why we worry about soup buildup during the two week period. Since we use CPAP machines with the water tank on them we do get moisture during the night. So glad you finally had a day without a headache.

Jackie, I can understand your concern about getting the flu shot.  However, it is important dealing with heart issues.  The flu strain keep mutating so it is difficult for them to come up with flu shots that can address what is happening but hopefully the shot lessens the severity of the flu if you get it. 

Not long back from my first session of the Gong Bath Therapy...It is very Buddhist or Tibetan, ( can I say that on a Christian site? )...the sounds - sound-waves lasted an hour....the use of three large gongs...I will definitely go again...
...It was a small group of just four...we lay on a leather wide black bed at height, two or three pillows....we cover our body or part body with a blanket..I took my fleece nightgown - dressing gown...All I know is my walking was better going out, than it was coming in...

Janice, my sincere condolences on the loss of your sister.  I know you would like to go, but I'm sure everyone understands that it just isn't possible for you to do so.  (((hugs))).

Carol, those awful wild hogs!!  Ugh!!  I'm glad we do not have that problem.

Jane, it's easy to understand John's frustration with Bryan, but it doesn't help your concern.  I wish I had answers for you, but I don't have the wisdom needed for that.

Larry, I have no idea if this stuff I have been having is the flu or not.  I do have an annoying cough that's still hanging on, along with congestion in my head.  It got up to 74* here today!!  That makes me feel better!

Jackie, glad you feel you got some benefit from the gong bath therapy.  Whatever helps!

Ruth Ann, always glad to read your posts!

Back to my packing!!

Hi Everyone.  It is going to be a lovely day getting up to 60 degrees and sunny.  I expect this to be a very quiet day of rest.  For the first time since I started using the oxygen at night I got up tired this morning.  I don't plan to go anywhere.  Pat saw the PA yesterday morning and got some medication.  She doesn't have the flu but rather bronchitis.  I think the medicine is working as she seems better this morning and isn't coughing as much.  Unfortunately our son does have the flu but did get to the doctor's office quickly and got a prescription for the Tama-Flu medication.

Janet, you symptoms sound a lot like what Pat has been experiencing with weakness and coughing.  I bet the nice warm day yesterday was welcome.

Sorry the flu has hit so hard here in our little community .... please take care of yourselves and follow all the doctor's orders.  I understand it is a serious epidemic across the U.S. -- worst in years.

I wish to thank all of you for your concern and prayers.  I admit I had reached a very low point, emotionally.  I saw a quote the other day that said there is a fine line between giving up and letting go ... well, I have chosen to let this go.  I will always care for and about my family, and that includes the granddaughters who have chosen to cut me out of their lives. Now I will add Bryan.  I know there is nothing I can do and I will still pray for each of them.  They know where I am and how to contact me.  They also have people around them with whom they are in touch.  Bryan knows where he can get help ... he also is in a place where he grew up and has many people there who care about him and are there for him if and when he decides to let them help.  I am not giving up hope but I am letting go.

Now I have three grandkids (and as many great grandkids) with whom I have no contact. As Larry pointed out: They are all adults.

Jane, I believe that is the best thing for you to do.  I have had to do that with my two adopted kids and their kids.  It hurt terribly, but not as much as the constant rejection and lies they told each other and anyone else who would listen.  As you said, we can and do continue to pray for them; will always love them; but they are adults and make their own choices. I choose to enjoy the ones who love me and not torture myself over why the others don't.

We are having another lovely day here--up to 64 on the way to a high of 70 degrees!  But they say we will have high winds and possibly snow tomorrow.   

I'm going to drive out to the cemetery, since it's nice.  I haven't been there since the day of the funeral, and for some reason, I feel the need to do that.  The grief just overwhelmed me yesterday, I don't know why, but I understand we all have to deal with it in our own way and time.  I'm so thankful for a loving, understanding and supportive husband!

Jane...
...I too have only one child, a daughter, we are estranged...My daughter has a son who a year ago had his own baby, I  dont even know my great grandchild's gender, nor name...I know the likelihood that my daughter over the years has poisoned him with her side...Now he is a man, I would love to sit him down and tell him some home truths but, In reality I know I shan't ever tell him things which concerned him as a young baby, to learn how he was neglected - abandoned...she even released herself from hospital, and abandoned him in the hospital ( Isolation ward ) a couple of days after he was born, ( she had to be hunted down and returned ) of course he will never know that...I was there the day he was born, I was at his birth...I was the first person to hold him, before they handed him to his mother...again I doubt if he even knows that..

Janet...
...something is drawing you to the cemetery today, you must follow your heart and must go...this is happening for a reason...

John has a virus, and spends a lot of time coughing and hacking.  He is frustrated, because it is preventing him from getting a good rest.

Tonight is a "J" night for me.  Mind going 100 MPH and body not able to keep up!

We went to Costco today, spent more than we intended, however there are many items we got that were on sale that we won't have to worry about getting again for some time.

The weather has been unreliable this winter so far.  One day - 30C (-22F) then this week up to +3 to +6 C or 37F to 42F......Very unusual for north eastern Ontario.  Tomorrow night (Sunday) we are expecting up to 15 cm of snow or over 6 inches......

Have a great night everyone.

Chris Saunders Posted this on Saturday.

" Speaking to yourselves in Psalms and Hymns and Spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart unto the Lord."
Ephesians ch.5-19.
Will this be you today?
In spite of everything..maybe you have sickness, hardship, sorrow of heart, you may be weary of arguing with people.
But in spite of all the world can throw at you will you lift your voice of praise to God, " a cheerful heart doeth good like a medicine." Proverbs 15-13.
This is absolutely true and has been proved over and over. "I will bless the Lord at all times, His praise shall continually be in my mouth."
Psalm 34. This Psalm will lift you up.
Verse six "this poor man cried and the Lord heard him and saved him out if all his troubles"
Wow! That's for me!
Also for you.
Let's go through this psalm, it is pure gold.
It can change your whole attitude and circumstances.
" The Angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear Him.
Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good.
They that seek the Lord shall not lack any good thing.
The eyes of the Lord are upon the Righteous, and His ears are open to their cry.
The Lord is near to them that have a broken heart, and saves such who have a contrite spirit.
Many are the afflictions of the Righteous but the Lord delivers him out of them all.
The Lord redeems the soul of His servants, none if those who trust in Him shall be desolate."
Yes indeed, we are the "Righteous" who are spoken of here, for He is our Righteousness,
Philippians ch3-9.
Romans ch. Four tells us all about Righteousness.
It is imputed to us, by our Lord and Saviour, for we most certainly have no Righteousness of our own
So sing, praise, rejoice.
Amen?
When He comes for me, may I be found not complaining, but singing.







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I feel very sad for people who have no faith, by no faith, I am referring to the afterlife...I understand everyone has there own Idea as to when their body comes to its end of life, the fact that some do not even care..and have the attitude of " when you are gone, you are gone..." My beliefs are yes, there will be nothing left of our body as we now know it but, what leaves our body carry's on living, maybe not in this world as we know it but, It continues...It is our spirit, our soul that leaves our body and remains alive...This is the way I see it....and it is my belief that keeps me going...The person ( man ) I live with has no beliefs whatsoever...just a shame neither can come back to say which one was right or wrong...

We only have to look around us, the marvels and wonders of our planet earth...if God never provided for us, then who did?...

Judy...
...thank you...Chris Saunders is a wise person...I firmly believe in laughter and belief....It is laughter which gets us through the hardships of life, and it is belief that will guide us into our next life...

Hi Everyone.  We are expecting a very nice day with it getting into the mid-60's.  Yesterday was sort of a lost day as had no energy.  I am up and dressed for Sunday School and Church this morning and seem to be a bit more energetic and know it will do me good to get out and about. I recognize there is a danger of catching the flu by being around other people but just as likely chance that I won't. I will likely watch the pro football playoff games late this afternoon and this evening.  Pat seemed to be feeling better yesterday and my son texted that he was feeling a lot better but was weak and tired. 

Jane, so happy to see you have made the decision not to let family situations bring you down as that would accomplish nothing.  One of our Al-Anon slogans, that I have found so helpful, is to "Let Go and Let God".  As you say they know how to contact you and we can't live someone else's life.  Only we can control our own thoughts and joys in life or allow someone else to take those from us.  Your worrying doesn't do one thing to change Brian's or your granddaughters lives.  Detachment doesn't mean we don't love the other person but that we can't bear their burdens.  (I'll get off my soap box now as have probably said too much but these are a few of the things that have helped me these last 12 years.)

Janet, I use to be concerned aboout what others thought of me until I came to realize I have no control over what others think of me or say about me so why should I waste one minute of this precious life worrying about it.  Sure hope that snow stays away from your area tomorrow but suppose you all need the moisture so it probably would be welcome.  I hope you find comfort in your visit to the cemetery.  You are so right that we each deal with our grief in our own ways. I am glad that you have such a loving and understanding husband. 

Jackie, life is what it is and probably none of us ever expected it would deal us the hands we have been dealt.  We suffer the lose of the dream we had when we were young as to what life  would be like  and what our families would be.  Well written thoughts about our life to come after we are finished here on earth and the glories that God has surrounded us with here on earth.   

Judy, sorry to hear that John has the virus and it sounds very much like what Pat is experiencing.  She hasn't been able to sleep in the bed the last two night due to extended coughing spells.  Fortunately, she can sleep in her easy chair and doesn't seem to cough as much.  She is asleep now so I haven't talked with her this morning.  Did Chris write the devotional thoughts you shared with us this morning?

It's cold here, but when we came home from church, the predicted wind had not hit yet.  And so far, no snow.  Yes, we really need moisture, so will welcome snow if we get some.  They were only predicting we'd get 1 or 2 inches, so not a lot.

I think Darrel has some lunch ready, and I'm hungry, so going to check it out!

Many thanks to Judy for posting the music from Chris Saunders.  The tune is soothing and lovely.  Somehow, I don't recognize the music but really do like it - remembering a little church our family attended that had a really old piano.  My parents were brought up Lutheran and one was Baptist.  We also were active in the Covenant church.  So, I have quite a varied church background and feel very comfortable in all those settings plus a few others as well.  Really do like the old-fashioned songs best. 

Jane:  Years ago, a dear friend told me that she used the words, "Let go, Let God".  Such a relief when reality sets in that we are not in control. 

Is everyone mending in here?  I mean from the coughing and flu symptoms?  There are so many things being cancelled around here because of the germs floating around.  We are really staying out of any crowds - Don has more than enough to deal with anyway and he needs me to be able as well. 

I am working on three pairs of hot pads for gifts to cousins - all are quilted and mostly sewn on the machine.

Janet:  We did get snow at home - way below the amount needed for water needs.  Take care! 

Greetings, everyone, on the wet Sunday from Oregon's South Coast. After church today we stopped in at Fred Meyer's to buy Keith a new pr. of Levi 501"s that are now in the dryer and to buy some steaks for supper this evening. Not much else is new around here, it has been raining off and one for days now. As they say here in Oregon " Well that's Oregon".

I too have children who do not speak to me and haven't for over 20 years. My oldest son Don and my only Daughter Carole. However2 out of 5 isn't so bad. I gave up trying to communicate with them when they both blocked me on facebook and my daughter refused to see me when I went to California a few years ago and stayed at her twin brother's place for a week. She told my granddaughter that " I don't need a mother" Now wasn't that nice of her when I traveled 700 miles on a train to visit. NOT!!!!!! I do pray for all of my kids though and will continue to do that.

Hi, friends,

I have returned from seeing about my sister-in-law's cat.  She has been in the hospital and next rehab center since noon on Christmas day.  The nurse called tonight telling me she is vomiting blood now. I'm very concerned about her.

I'm dealing with rejection and separation issues between my children. It's very painful, isn't it.

Much love to everyone who comes here.

Ruth Ann

The words were from a post on Facebook of Chris's,  The hymn was out of the hymn library.
Chris is a wise man and I love his posts.  I am glad you all enjoyed what he wrote.

The last time I saw my estranged daughter ( we wasn't estranged at the time, we are now since that day, some few years ago ) was a Christmas Eve morning - mid day, we had travelled 20-30 minutes on the motorway to take Christmas presents over to them, we had just stepped in the door, daughter in the process of putting the kettle on when she wasn't in the mood for my downside, although I have endured her downsides ) due to the argument myself and the person I am still living with ( not by choice ) had had the day before, so she didn't want me to stay, and not kindly, showed me the door, she threw me out...we had only been there 5 or 10 minutes.....The irony of this is that we had just got back together after another lengthy estrangedment...

Oh and not forgetting her uncaring attitude on the phone a few years later when I told her I was just diagnosed with MS and awaiting results a few weeks later on an Hysteroscopy operation to find out whether I had cancer,..thankfully I never but, to this day she still doesn't know that,...In fact she called me a selfish c***t because I was passing on my MS to her and her son...MS is not catchable...she had no sympathy or concern over what I had just been through in the matter of a month...the MS diagnoses and awaiting to find out if I had cancer...

So family life isn't all what it is made out to be...I can see several of us are in a similar situation, sadly....I agree, it is very painful...

Meant to have added, rectified....that it wasn't any arguments taking place just a cold atmosphere but the icing on the cake was when I was trying to tell my daughter about a bleed I had recently had...I had said those fatal words to her..." there you go, once again you aren't listening..." that was the point she threw me out..I wasn't keeping with her Christmas spirit..

For all members with broken family ties....

Hi Everyone.  It is a cloudy morning but in the 50's.  I had to make a quick trip to Walmart this morning to get a prescription for Pat and to get a bottle of cough syrup for her.  The medication the PA prescribed for her cough doesn't seem to be working and she didn't sleep at all last night.  However, she does think the congestion is better.  Apparently the coughing goes on for quite a few days.  I have nothing else on my schedule for today.  I did watch the late afternoon pro football game and then the first half of the second game.  The first game was competitive and the second was not. 

Janet, the weather this morning looks like you all could be in for part of blizzard.

Carol, I grew up in a Disciples of Christ church and then after Pat and I married we have belonged to two Baptist churches, three Presbyterian churches and two Methodist Churches.  Like you I like the old Hymns also and the Methodist Hymnal contains a lot of them as does our Sunday School songbook.  Yesterday one of the songs we sang in Sunday School was "A Church in the Wildwood", which is a favorite from my childhood. 

Marilyn, I remember how green everything was when I made a couple of business trips to Oregon.  I guess it takes all that rain to keep it that way.  Riffs within our famlies are such a sad thing for all involved.

Ruth Ann, sorry to hear of your sister-in-laws condition and it doesn't sound good at all.  Rejection and separation issues within famlies is a painful thing.

Judy, was that something new from Chris or from an earlier posting he had made several years ago when he was participating in CP? 

Jackie, there are many things we just can't control and the actions of others is high on the list.  Why people act as they do will always be a mystery I guess.  It brings so much sadness and pain.  That was a nice graphic.  I am sure glad that God is willing to forgive us and comfort us in times of distress and pain. 

Such sad stories of family issues.

Ruth Ann:  Prayer for you and your SIL -

The javelina walked right over the expensive anti-critter pellets Don surrounded on this lot.  The nerve! 

We watched a terrible and sad football game yesterday. 

Next week, two cousins are arriving and staying at another cousins winter home.  I have a meeting with a doctor here - it was like pulling teeth to get a doctor's office to take me on for half a year.  Everything was closed.  So thankful to have someone available if and when.  Don goes to the VA and he is covered well. 

Larry:  I hope Pat gets a good cough syrup - we have heard of the ongoing coughing symptoms too.  My dad used to walk around the house singing the old songs.

We have a huge crock pot of steel-cut oatmeal flavored with cranberries, etc. - Not thinking, I accidentally made twice as much as planned.

An email arrived this morning from a missionary at our home church - she updated us on prayer requests.  So many critical issues that it seems overwhelming at times.  It brings us to grips with the reality of living in this world. 

Well!  It's noon already!  How did that happen so fast?     We went to the gym again today, as I am feeling better and need to be in shape for the upcoming trip.  Kristi said, "No weight lifting for you today!  I"m thinking you have done enough, with a mile and a half on the treadmill."  So I did some stretching and that was it for today.

It is cold and windy here, and we did get snow!!  You can even see it, if you look hard enough, in places where it's shady and the wind can't blow it away!     They are getting quite a lot in NW Kansas and into Nebraska, though.

I'm thinking of the great value of forgiveness today.  How much Jesus forgave us, and how willing we shouldd be to forgive others.  Lord, help me to forgive--early and often!

I want to go to town and do a few errands, also visit a friend who has been very ill.  I didn't want to chance exposing her to anything, so have stayed away.

Carol, are people allowed to shoot those awful javelinas?  But then I guess you would have the problem of what to do with the carcass!

The Poor Vikings had a terrible day yesterday.  I felt so bad for them.

I'm reading a really good book titled "God and Donald Trump."  Very enlightening--and interesting, too.  Gives me renewed faith in what we Christians can do when we really pray and stand united.  It is by Steven Strang.

I'll see all you nice folks later!

No one has been here since my post yesterday.  I have an early eye appointment in Garden City; we are taking John along so we can order the headstone, and also hope to meet Beth's friend Mindi for lunch.

Anyway--it's cold and windy here again today.  And I just popped in to say hello before we leave.  HELLO!!   

Hi Everyone. We have had a little rain during the night and it is overcast today, at least so far.  It is currently 65 but the temperatures are to go down during the day to the low 60's this afternoon.  I decided to go to the Prompt Care yesterday afternoon and really got a good report as my lungs were clear so the PA doesn't feel I have bronchitis and perhaps it is just sinus causing the cough. She gave me a prescription for TamaFlu if I get any flu symptoms and prescribed something for the cough.  I do think the cough is better this morning.  Last night was one of those nights when I just couldn't go to sleep until probably 2 am. I plan to stay in today and mainly take things slow.

Carol, I guess the javeliinas didn't get the memo that they were suppose to not like the anti-critter pellets.  Glad you were able to find a doctor that you can get established with in case you need the care.  When I hear of the terrible conditions in other places in the world, and some in our own country, it makes realize how blessed I have been. 

Janet, nice to see you have been able to get to the gym and that you are feeling better.  Glad you didn't try to do to much.  I heard from my sister in Northern Iowa yesterday and they were in the midst of a really bad blizzard.  I have found the willingness to forgive and no longer judge others has made a tremendous change in my life these last few years.  When I let the anger go and stressed love for others that my whole outlook on life changed.  I hope you have a good trip to Garden City today and can meet Beth's friend for lunch. 

Thinking of that song, "One Day at a Time".  Janet - keep up your busyness if at all possible.  Hugs  Oh, no one could shoot a javelina although they could in self-defense.  They travel in herds and that herd is mighty large right now.  Yes, the Vikings lost big time - that is almost the only team my family will watch. 

We needed air in a front tire and one place wanted $1.50 for 4 minutes of air.  We drove to a Q-trip gas station where we can get it free - plus filled the tank for less as well.  Air always used to be free. 

Don has to take a nap - he tires so easily with this new medication. 

Larry:  good idea to be checked out - I hope the cough syrup helps your cough.  No, the javelinas did not get my memo.   

Two of our nieces live by the ocean in WA and they had a tsunami warning from an Alaskan earthquake - it didn't last long.  There are signs on evacuation posted all along the highway out of the town. 

Hello everyone, sorry I have been awol for a few days although I have been here to read your comments. I, however, didn't take any notes. Things have been busy for me, Music practice is now on Monday's at 4:30 so supper has to wait until I get home or we have to have an early one. This week we are doing Amazing grace, (which always makes me cry, but it was my choice.) Just as you are, Jesus Loves Me and one that I can't remember.

Larry, I do hope that Pat is feeling better by now and that you aren't catching what she had.

Janet are you feeling better as well, How did your Eye appointment go. I will be going to DMV to get my license re3newed on Friday.

This has been a rough 2 days,  First it snowed yesterday then last night we had rain, today more snow.  Busses were called off and the college was closed.  We have been expecting a power outage, thankfully that didn't happen.  Today's weather report says this weekend temperatures are to be above freezing so my question is what is next!

Not often I comment on a musician, however Neil Diamond at 77 is retiring because he has Parkinson's.  Always enjoyed his music.

As I read through the posts I keep having a verse run through my mind.   

1 Thessalonians 5:18 In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.

That is one of the hardest things we are to do.  However this re must remember. When Paul and Silas were in prison the chains didn't fall off till they were praising God!  So let us start praising the Almighty God for everything in our lives!

Good night every one!

Yes very sad to hear of Neil Diamonds condition of Parkinson's Disease...I have some Idea of what future he will be facing.. some similarities to MS, they both affect the central nervous system, the brain and spinal cord...

Link...

https://www.webmd.com/multiple-sclerosis/multiple-sclerosis-ms-parkinsons#1

 
Woken up to the sounds of " Storm Georgina "...we are being warned of 70 mph battering gale-force winds and heavy rain..with the possibility of attacking power-lines...UK is on warning " orange alert "

Judy...
...one thing we cant control, not all the money in the world can control our weathers...which sadly causes such unnecessary damages to both property, lives of humans and our animal wildlife...

I saw Neil Diamond singing live a few years ago at an outdoors concert, he gave it all that he had..a fantastic performance.....
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Just liustened to this news on our mid day tv...I have posted the link but not sure you will be able to watch it outside our UK....I have posted this for her bravery, outlook and her courage...Link...Former Minister for Public Health and Culture Secretary, Baroness Tessa Jowell...


http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/av/health-42786413/former-labour-minister-opens-up-about-being-diagnosed-with-brain-cancer

Judy, I hope your weather calms down!  Just a note:  Scripture  doesn't say to give thanks FOR all things; but,
rather, IN all things. (In everything)  There is a huge difference!!

I need to get going; we have been to the gym; I have finished the laundry, done the dishes, and now I have to get to my chiropractor appointment in a few minutes.  I need a tune-up before we leave on our trip one week from today.

We had a nice, leisurely lunch with Mindi yesterday, and got the rest of the things done, as well.  My appointment only consisted of his looking at my eye where he had removed the tiny skin cancer a year ago, to be sure it is okay.
It is!! 

I have always enjoyed Neil Diamond's singing, too.  Sorry about his health problem.

Have a good one, folks!  See you later!

Hmmm...lost my formatting.  Sorry, hope you can read it anyway.

Judy B:  Thank you for the reminder of keeping our faith throughout.  I am sorry that your weather issues causes concern.  Certainly not normal weather this year.  Are you sewing or knitting anything?  I bought two variegated skeins of yarn to have on hand - for the waiting rooms of doctor appointments mainly.  Now, I am sewing hot pads for gifts - they have a thinsulate layer (the fabric that is used on ironing boards) in the middle and heat doesn't bother when using.  There are 5 layers when finished but still bendable for your hand.  Hope I described it correctly.  Hi to John!  Missing his posts. 

Don is making biscuits and gravy for breakfast (late today).  He picked up that idea when we were transferred to Texas.

Janet: Wonderful news from your eye doc! 

Jacqueline:  Is there any flooding from this storm?  We were there in the aftermath of flooding - Morton-on-Marsh one year.  It was just devastating to the little towns.  Stay safe and secure indoors.  I did read of your country woman who has a brain cancer diagnosis.  May she be pain free! 

Today was sunny and cold.  Tomorrow we are going out to take some pictures of the ice and snow. That is John's idea and I will go along, it will be good to get out of the house for a while.

Seems everyone read my comment about giving thanks....Now a challenge.  What are you thankful for today!

Carol I knit 2 sweaters for my grand kiddletts, and one for Kassie.  I have the yarn to make one for her fianc?, which will be the next project.  Right now I am knitting a sweater for myself, and feeling terribly selfish in doing so!  It is red and will have white maple leaves around the yoke.  This will be the first sweater I will have knit for myself......ever!

It is after 11 so I am off to bed.  Night all!

Hi, friends,

My sister in law felt better and actually called me tonight.  That makes me feel happier.

I'm leaving to go do my laundry - have been too busy to go during daylight hours.

Y'all have a good rest tonight.

Love to all,
Ruth Ann

Judy...

...yes I read your comment although I never responded back to it...In answer to your question...
...I am thankful for the people who have now passed away, for coming into my life when they did, and leaving me with good-happy memories, again I am referring to both humans and my dogs...The sadness is they are no longer here with me but I know they are here in spirit, if not body...I am thankful I have inherited many of my late fathers positive Idioms-expressions, which I now say myself on a regular day to day basis...

I am thankful I still have my use of other body parts, ie, my eyesight, my hearing, my very good long term memory of my past, although cant say the same for my short term memory...I am very thankful of our green planet, the grass, trees, and especially the sound and enjoyment I get from our birds...I hope one day I shall be as free as they are...I am also thankful I can look out my window and spot the odd wildlife, a deer, a fox, cows roaming on our hills...

I am thankful I am now living in a place of natural surrounding beauty, when I think others are living on a busy road-street with noisy and polluted traffic outside there doors...I am thankful I am living my life where I can get fresh drinking water, a warm cosy bed, electricity, food...I am very thankful that I dont live in a war zone of a country, or live in a country of starvation, dirty water...

I am thankful I have a God who one day will take away my pain ( illness ) on earth..and lead me to a future existence, of which I am trusting on seeing- being with, my family and my dogs again...I know in my heart He ( God ) has prepared a place for me, what it is, I have no Idea, but it there waiting for me...

Hi Everyone.  I am going to beg off of making individual comments today as have had a setback with the cough and congestion.  Yesterday evening early I thought things were under control, but by the time I got home from dinner at the Church I started coughing.  I was feeling terrible and went to bed about 8 pm and was able to stay there in basically a sitting up position until around 3:30 when I started hacking again.  So I came out to my easy chair.  Today will just be one of rest even if it is sitting up. 

Good day all.  Thankful to be here & Don's first hug of the day.  Thankful for my family - friends and truly thankful for all of you here.

JudyB:  Kassie is engaged?  How could that be happening so soon?   
Happy for you and her and all the family.  It is about time you knit a sweater for yourself  -- nice Canadian touch to your personal sweater - Maple Leafs. 

Larry:  That cold sounds like a mean one.  Sleep and rest when you can. 

  I am looking forward to a cousin (2 cousins) lunch next week and perhaps our oldest son will be in the area to join us.  They live in Minnesota so very happy to get away at this time of the year.  I will bring two hot dishes and rolls . 

I was here early to read but didn't get a post done.  Trying to tie up loose ends, to be ready to leave on Wednesday. 

It got VERY windy here today; warnings of extreme fire danger, and already there has been one wildfire and a house fire in Pratt that took the lives of four little children, ages 3 months to 5 years.  The mother is hospitalized in critical condition.

I had lunch with a lovely friend today; such a treat!   

I will say good night now, as I have no real news to share.

I am thankful for a hubby who took me out today to take some pictures.  It has been a beautiful day overcast but still beautiful.

Yes Kassie is engaged.  She has always been our fireball, her young man has a way of handling that.  She will be 6 weeks off 24.  I know I am prejudiced but she is a beautiful young lady!

This sore throat, sneezing, and sinus congestion has got me down, thinking a trip to the clinic may be in store. Ugggg.

Larry feel better soon!

Talk to you all tomorrow.

Judy...
...its those little things that give us the most pleasure...yes just to get out of the home for a while " is worth its weight in gold, " as the saying goes...one of life's best medicines...fresh air and a change of scenery...

Hi Everyone.  It is beautiful and sunny day here in South Carolina.  I am feeling somewhat better this morning after a good night of sleep. I did fix Pat's breakfast a little bit ago and cleaned up the kitchen and took care of a couple of other small task. As a result I am ready to restore my energy as found I didn't have much stamina this morning.  The housekeeper will be here in a few minutes.  Pat did call her yesterday and explained we both had been ill and gave her the opportunity to delay her visit but she choose to come anyway.  We don't think we are contagious and that the coughing is something that we will have to deal with for awhile as it seems to be staying with people for several weeks.  I have nothing on the calendar for today so it can be another one to basically rest.

Carol, this is a nice time to visit in Arizona when one lives in Minnesota. 

Janet, how dreadful about the house fire and loss of those young lives. 

Judy, for some reason both Pat and I have avoided a sore throat.  Congratulations to Kassie and it sounds like you like the young man she is to marry.  Take care of yourself and it sounds like a visit to the clinic would be in order. 

Jackie, I love to get away from home for a little while but also am always happy to drive into my driveway and get back in the house safe and sound.   

Checking in to CP for daily uplifting people! 

Janet:  How tragic for the family - I remember that happening when our children were young in a rural area.  That family didn't have a smoke alarm.  So sad for your community.

JudyB:  My cousin Judy is visiting from Minnesota - staying at another cousin's home.  I know three Judys now - all of them are so much fun! All three are active in church.   Everyone will be so happy when this winter of flu and colds ends. 

Larry:  Cleaning before the cleaning lady arrives?  I know- you probably wanted to have things put away - it just did sound funny.  A good idea to have a day of rest.  Are you two feeling like you are on the mend? 

We put a block of bird seed out in the back - it is called a Quail block.  There are probably 30 birds back there and not one quail has arrived at our house - yet. 

Carol...
...no flooding's in our areas, nor did I see any flooding's on our travel route late yesterday evening...but a neighbouring county of ( Somerset ) did get some...thank you for asking...

Larry Hanna...
...I am the same, after any lengthy journey back home, is, the first things I do, not sure in which order, is to put the kettle on, and make a desperate trip to the loo...

...They have been saying on our today news that too many GP Doctors have been prescribing antibiotics for sore throats which dont do anything for a sore throat...and to save the antibiotics for the illnesses that really need them...they are being told to " stop prescribing precious antibiotics for sore throats..."